Boards No Contact Rule Thinking about breaking NC

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    quarantine123
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    I was together with my ex for 2 years, she had her insecurities and I had my commitment issues. I treated her well and she treated me well, we didn’t cheat on each other but we argued a lot about my communication issues. I always comforted her with her insecurities and took some of verbal abuse that came with it. We did grow distance in the last few months and the communication got worst between us. She broke up with me and at the time I thought it was the best decision as I thought the relationship was unhealthy. We tried to stay friends and talk here and there. After a month of breakup, I really regretted it and texted her and told her I missed her and asked for another chance. A few days later, I wrote a letter and got her flowers and wine and dropped it off her at place. She said we need time apart and need to focus on ourselves and shouldn’t be together right now. I’ve been on NC for 13 days now and really want to reach out to her. I have been spending the 13 days focusing on myself but she’s been on my mind everyday. I believe a second chance we would be a lot better to each other

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    patricia12
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    @quarantine123 NO, do not break no contact. Maybe look online to read about relationships and proper communication etc.. Good luck and stay safe.

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