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Dear Kevin,
My name is Khine.I’m 21 yrs old and my bf is 19. We were in over 3 years relationship. After that , we broke up for no reasons. I faced really hard times as I used to share my hurts and happiness with him all over 3 years. I searched in Google to ease my feelings. I’ve found so many relationship experts. I’ve read so many advice from them. Most of them advised to make NC.
But unlike the other advices, you advices are more details. I didn’t even believe that you could help me. To be frank with you, I just tried your advice as I didn’t have anymore to lose.Thank you to let the advice copy. I used to copy your advices and read them at home, at job whenever I feel hurt. It really did help me. Whenever I read your advices, I felt like all I need to do to change my mind as I really showed him my desperation and neediness and I reminded myself like ” You can live without him ” .
I thought no one in the world would show their desperation to their ex like me. I kneed him, begged his family, served and gave him whatever he wanted, stayed at the ladder of his house for whole day in crying, his neighbors even looked up me with strange eyes, called his fris and asked about him, called him all night though he made me blacklist. I even saw my bf with new gf in hotel room, half naked. But I couldn’t forget him.
At last, I decided to follow up the Kevin’s emails. After 1 week, he called me once, no pick up. After 2 weeks, he called me more, no pick up. After 2 weeks, I made my ph power off for over 1 months. Unbelievable, he tried to contact my family’s phone. I tried to ignore those calls. But finally, I talked with him accidentally.I got him back. ! I’m afraid him and I can’t believe him anymore.
I don’t even believe myself. Kevin changes me ! Kevin changes me to be a strong girl. He also help me to get myself again. But my bf came my home and told my Mom that he wanted to start new relationship with me and he also promised my mom that he would change himself, he would do jobs and so on. They even contacted each other without telling me. My Mom told me to think again. But I love him. Now, I try to believe him again. He also proves that he loves me and he really changes now. He also showed me whenever his ex contacts him. He also tell me our future plan, his job without my force. Now, we make bank account with our names. It’s currently 950 USD now for future married plan. ( I know it’s a small amount now, but we will work hard ) Unlike him, he reduce his habit of using money too much.For me, Kevin help me to be strong and happy person during NC although sometimes, miss him. During NC, I just noticed about my faults in previous RS with him. So, I can change my bad habits now and he changes his too. As Kevin’s last conversation in his email, I turn around and look at my last days from now, how lucky I am to meet you, Kevin. I really did make the best decision ever. I won’t forget you for my whole life and I really appreciate. Because of you, I get back my soul mate.
Thank you Kevin. Thank you again. Thank you my friends in this website who used to cheer me up. Without you guys, I would face harder days.
PS: I just want to share my current situation to Kevin and my fris as I used to share my feelings since I was in hard times. If you feel annoyed because of my post, I’m sorry.
Khine
[email protected]Really nice to read a success story at last! Congratulations!
I hope many of us will succeed as well.
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