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February 5, 2015 at 4:07 am #29171
ihavenoidea
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His purpose was to “help” her get over me, so he can have her for himself… He is hitting on her VERY HARD. She is fine with it, dont know if she falls in love with him. I do think it is over, but Im still going to ask her out for a coffee next week, tbh I want to let her see that Ive changed…
February 5, 2015 at 4:29 am #29174
Libertine1
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I know how you feel. The guy who is with my ex was hitting on her before, but she wasn’t interested, and he finally wormed his way in, after the parents made her see him. He must be pretty proud of himself.
February 5, 2015 at 4:41 am #29176
ihavenoidea
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But overall, what do u think about the stuff her mom told me?
February 5, 2015 at 5:13 am #29179
Libertine1
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I wouldn’t take it too seriously. But I would also listen to her. I think you need to give it time still.

But it is positive that she holds no bad feelings towards you. Just be positive!
February 5, 2015 at 6:39 am #29185
ihavenoidea
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Oh, Im so confused 🙂

It looks like a rebound for me now, she was hurt, couldnt deal with it and found a guy who made her forget. I hope this is not because I want it to look like a rebound… My mind is playing with me again I think, Im overthinking it, trying to find a proof that shes moved on, so I can be misserable.
February 5, 2015 at 7:14 am #29188
Libertine1
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Just give yourself time to get over her before you try again

Don’t mess up like me. A lot of people tell me I can get my ex back. But I know it’s over, I messed up too much.

Don’t do what I did

Good luck
February 5, 2015 at 7:22 am #29189
ihavenoidea
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You still have chance, your ex told you she loves you, mine on the other hand didnt tell me that for so long now…
February 5, 2015 at 7:50 am #29193
Libertine1
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She also told me to leave her alone, is seeing something new else, blocked my number and ostrcacised me for 4 months. I doubt I can.

You will be fine. Just think positive, but give her space.
February 5, 2015 at 8:06 am #29195
ihavenoidea
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You still dont know if she loves the other guy. Women’s love is very strong, dont lose hope. Live your life, change yourself. 🙂

In some time, reach out to her, you will see the difference.
February 5, 2015 at 8:13 am #29196
Libertine1
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Na, she wanted me out of her life. Nothing I can do. Parents against me, new relationship. I acted like a psycho stalker. I am doomed. I am kind of Ok with it now though. She was the love of my life, but not a lot I can do.
February 5, 2015 at 8:24 am #29199
ihavenoidea
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Okay, I understand your point of view, but look at this, you tell me about my case that I have a lot of hope and she still loves me, but I will tell you that: my ex wanted me out of her life aswell, she has a new guy. Basically the only difference is that her parents arent against me and this has nothing to do with her feelings.
February 5, 2015 at 8:42 am #29201
Libertine1
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Yes, and you haven’t acted crazy yet. Please, just give her space and time.
February 5, 2015 at 12:35 pm #29238
ihavenoidea
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Thanks @Libertine1 once again for support, I really appreciate it.

Its getting worse when its close to the weekend… Im so afraid they are going to meet. Why? Because I feel that if they go too far… Then well… Even if it ends after I wouldnt be able to forget it.
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