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We are and becoming stronger people and learning so much about ourselves! Please don’t be sad it has helped me.
Got to keep our heads up 🙂
How you feeling now?
We are stronger, yes 🙂
I am feeling bad. The whole time I was begging and feeling bad, she didn’t care. She was seeing him. And now they have obviously got closer, with the family and friends adding him. I feel like I do not factor into the equation now and am just a painful memory 🙁
I don’t know what to do now, or if I will send the letter.
Don’t feel bad about what you did do that was not you it was your broken heart & desperation not to lose her! We have all done it, I was on my knees begging him, they have added him but he hasn’t excepted them!
Keep doing what you said, go on her holiday and please do send it, it will do you good!
I’ve just send this to another friend on here “If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. If they don’t, they never were.”.
We shall see. I am pretty sure that I am forgotten. But we shall see. The next thing will probably be them being in a relationship. And then I will be buried.
We shall see. Thanks, Caz.
You are not forgotten! Have you forgotten about her?
Please keep strong nearly 3 weeks 🙂
I feel so resigned. Kind of accepting she has moved on and things are getting serious with this guy. I made mistakes, really bad mistakes. I have to accept I ruined it. Obviously, I will give it time and may still send the letter. But, it’s probably impossible for me to get her back. This is just my situation and the circumstances I find myself in.
Please do not let it reflect on you. I know you can sometimes feel the same. But you have so much history. He will never forget the good times. Sometimes we accept someone has hurt us, but the positives are never forgotten. I think you two have such a history. And your main problem was the drinking and anger. You can undo the damage by proving you have fixed yourself. I believe in you 🙂
And I believe in you too, keep going and send the letter it will open her eyes that you have changed for the better. Nothing is impossible.
He’s gone I see that now, I’m not holding my breath, 19 days and I haven’t heard a word, he would usually have text by now, I know I asked him not too that’s why I feel he won’t respond to the letter.
He is not texting you, probably because you told him to. He has respect for you and is listening. He hasn’t moved on. In the letter, you can thank him for listening to your wishes, tell him you have changed now and want to fix things. Trust me, there is a way back for you!
Mine really is. Harassment is not good. I even sent the guy two messages. I copy and pasted what her parents sent me and told him that he is entering into a relationship on the basis that she has been forced and I also called him a knob, as he knew he was pursuing someone in a relationship.
He has respected me but he told me their is no way back for us, we can be friends with benefits! he wants me to move on.
Honestly we all done mad stuff when our ex’s left us, don’t beat yourself up! she is being forced & it won’t last
But ex’s always say this. Look at most of the success stories and it was the same. The ex would always say there is no way back. My ex said the same, although it didn’t make me feel that bad, as I know that’s how she was feeling in the moment. It’s what I did afterwards, which ruined it and the duration and craziness. I actually text her saying it was a friend texting from my phone and that I was in hospital because of her! That was crazy!
Trust me, there is a way back for you!
They do but I know him so well he means it, he said back in September he couldnt stand another man with me but he said 3 weeks ago he’s not bothered and he has come to terms with that.
You wanted her attention that is all, you would have done anything and that’s understandable!
Honestly I don’t think there is but I’ve accepted that.
It’s not over, Caz. Trust me. You are doing all the correct things. You are showing him that maybe you don’t care anymore. He had all the power before, remember. Now you are regaining that and he is questioning the hold he had over you.
Will just have to wait and see…thanks @Libertine it’s a pity we can’t meet in person to really have a good chat 🙂
Haha, I get the feeling it would end with us both crying, haha. But one thing is guaranteed. We are doing the right things. I hope we can both get them back so much. I get scared that April will come and she will then be in a serious relationship…
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