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January 31, 2015 at 5:46 pm #28171
I think I’m going to cancel it. I’m afraid I’ll get hurt and i don’t want to upset him. I’m in love with him and i can’t believe this is happening
January 31, 2015 at 6:03 pm #28175Caz, please don’t be sad! It’s just emotions. Your mind is playing tricks on you, making it feel like a hopeless situation, and it really isn’t. I know the feeling, you have guilt mixed into the equation, which is never helpful. But you are strong enough to get through this, and I am sure he cares a lot for you. You have both been through a lot together and it is impossible for him not to think about the good times you had together.
February 1, 2015 at 3:34 am #28219My emotions did get the better of me! Just wish I could see him or speak to him but I’m afraid of the rejection.
How are you today?
February 1, 2015 at 4:04 am #28220Well the main thing is you were strong and did not contact him! I really don’t know how I feel. A great day yesterday, but thinking about the situation again.
Obviously, she likes this other guy a lot, otherwise her parents and best friend would not have friend requested him. Although, he is being elusive and not accepting the requests. Something tells me that she is fully immersed in this relationship π
February 1, 2015 at 4:10 am #28221I was! I kept thinking don’t throw away the last 18 days!
It’s so hard not to think about it but keep busy I’ve start making a 2000 piece jigsaw π
Why is he not requesting them that would be my question! If he’s in a relationship with Her surely he would have accepted
February 1, 2015 at 4:18 am #28222That is true, yes. I am not sure. But one thing for sure – all the effort is coming from her side π who knows. I am so confused. Maybe she liked the other guy more than me anyhow, and all this stuff about parents etc was just an excuse… π
That is such a great idea! I jigsaw will definitely take your mind off of things! And exactly, we have built this thing up much now, that breaking it would be unthinkable! I hope you have a much better day today. Plus, you start a new job, which means you will also get to meet lot’s of new exciting people!
Keep positive!
February 1, 2015 at 4:29 am #28224I still don’t think it’s her to be honest just her friends and family, like you said to me last night about my ex she still loves you!
I know I have a lot of good going for me.
DAY 19 nearly 3 weeks π
February 1, 2015 at 4:32 am #28225I know, 3 weeks soon! We have done so well, Caz! We will keep strong!
I dunno, our relationship wasn’t that long, who knows. She had insecurity issues. At the moment I do not have that much hope. But I will just keep going and build myself up again. I feel better, just resigned tbf.
I hate the uncertainty, not knowing what is going on in their minds.
February 1, 2015 at 5:15 am #28227We have done brilliantly! so I’m smiling that I have done so well please do the same π
It is hard not knowing what they are thinking but they will be thinking were have we gone
February 1, 2015 at 5:38 am #28234Yes, we should be proud! Imagine if we carried on messaging them! I think we have done amazing. haha
And yes, they will definitely be thinking where we have gone! Imagine someone texting you constantly for weeks, and then stops. You would definitely wonder!
February 1, 2015 at 5:39 am #28235We would have restraining orders by now haha!
I know they will be questioning it π
February 1, 2015 at 5:55 am #28238Haha! Exactly, I was thinking the same thing lol.
Yes, I think they will be! But I am hoping that my ex is not too busy chasing someone else… ok, I should just not think like that.
February 1, 2015 at 6:02 am #28240My friend told me that from a girl’s perspective, it puts you off so much when someone acts the way I acted. Ok, I am having a bad day. I need to redirect my attention.
Please, keep strong yourself. We will get to 3 weeks and feel good again soon!
February 1, 2015 at 6:17 am #28241It is off putting! That’s what I have learned, the more needy and desperate we were we pushed them further away…
You are aloud to have bad days but they do get better, I had a good cry last night and woke up so much better π
Once I hit the 3 week mark I will feel so much better
February 1, 2015 at 7:42 am #28251Yes, we are undoing all the damage now. We are doing the correct things to get them back. I am so sad that you cried. There is still so much hope, be positive π
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