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  • January 30, 2015 at 9:42 am #27789
    Caz15
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    Never compare yourself to anyone you are an amazing person with lots going for you! She does love she’s just hurt & confused like you.

    You have disappeared and see will be wondering why!

    Too be honest I don’t even think I’m going to send the letter anymore he knows where I am if he wants anything!

    January 30, 2015 at 9:47 am #27791
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    Please do not think like that. He obviously means a lot to you and he deserves someone amazing like you! I think a letter may help him. You have to show you are a new person 🙂

    She probably isn’t wondering. She knows that I know she is in her home country. So probably expects me not to contact her 🙁

    January 30, 2015 at 9:54 am #27792
    Caz15
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    He means the world to me! but I don’t mean that to him it’s obvious now. I blew it.

    Oh she is definitely wondering what your doing you cannot just switch of like that, yes but she will be home and you will still not contact so that will make Her more curious.

    January 30, 2015 at 10:15 am #27802
    Libertine1
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    We will see. I think she has moved on though 🙁 some people told me I could wait for 100 years and she would still not come back. I was thay bad 🙁

    Come on, be optimistic! Your history alopecia enough to keep you in contac. An experience of having cancer creates such a special bond. He just needs spac. As I said, it is still early 🙂 you are doing this for yourself and him.

    January 30, 2015 at 10:19 am #27806
    Caz15
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    You don’t know that! You had a wonderful connection, time heals all.

    I’m doing this more importantly for myself but I think its all gone, time for me to move on

    January 30, 2015 at 10:22 am #27808
    Libertine1
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    No, this is just how you are feeling at the moment. I know you can do it, Caz!

    January 30, 2015 at 10:24 am #27809
    Caz15
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    thanks @libertine1, just a bad hour!

    Day 18 tomorrow whoa! 🙂

    January 30, 2015 at 10:31 am #27817
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    Keep on track! There is a way back. The way you are feeling is part of the process.

    January 30, 2015 at 10:40 am #27827
    Caz15
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    I will do and you too 🙂

    Tomorrow is a new day! more positivity is needed

    January 30, 2015 at 12:37 pm #27869
    Caz15
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    You ok @Libertine1 🙂

    January 30, 2015 at 2:01 pm #27886
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    Ha, not really. Went for drinks after work, and accidentally splurged to a colleague, who responded that it was probably inappropriate to talk about it with colleagues. I feel so embarrassed. I would never usually be like it. I miss the old me. I feel so hopeless right now. So, her best friend followed this guy on facebook 2 weeks ago, he the guy did not accept the friend request. Now her parents have done the same thing, and he has not accepted their friend request either.

    I feel like it is all against me, I feel so weak. This guy is probably strong, charismatic and fun. Whereas I am now a mess 🙁

    Sorry. Ignore my problems. You have different circumstances than me and you are becoming the person he loves again. You are on your way to getting him back 🙂

    January 30, 2015 at 2:11 pm #27887
    Caz15
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    Ok so first of all I’m a bit annoyed at your colleague for not offering support! ignorant so and so..you should not feel embarrassed.

    Ok so he has not accepts their friend requests does that NOT scream at you that they don’t want to know?

    I am always here to listen and support! please don’t think that my troubles are worse than yours we are on the same page.

    January 30, 2015 at 2:12 pm #27889
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    I meant to say he doesn’t want to know.

    January 30, 2015 at 2:32 pm #27896
    Libertine1
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    That’s true. Maybe thay is why she is depressed. Because he doesn’t want to take things that far? I dunno but in thay case, it is not about me.

    January 31, 2015 at 3:43 am #27956
    Libertine1
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    Hi Caz! Nearly 3 weeks! I cannot believe how far we have come 🙂 how are you feeling today?

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