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January 29, 2015 at 10:44 am #27491
If she was always careful with Her pictures being private I doubt it was an oversight!
You were not crazy you were broken hearted and your emotions where all over the place, everyone on this page can agree we all begged, pleaded, cried to do anything to get them back so please do not beat yourself up over this, you are a good guy and keep thinking that.
January 29, 2015 at 12:15 pm #27517I fear I went too far though. 3 straight months of begging, name calling, suicide threats and saying horrible things to hurt he. It is horrible to even think about these things. And I kept saying I would stop and apologise, then I would do it again. π
I can only abide the process and hope.
January 29, 2015 at 12:45 pm #27529We have all done saying and doing things so out of character but that was not you! You wanted to hurt her as much as she hurt you.
We have to keep strong and keep pushing forward.
Day 17 tomorrow
January 29, 2015 at 2:09 pm #27544Thanks Caz. I get haunted by these things so much. I now question whether I was a big deal for her and wonder if she has just moved on π day 17 yes π we have to keep strong.
How has your day been?
January 29, 2015 at 2:18 pm #27547Don’t let them haunt you, you weren’t in the right frame of mind when it happened. It’s all in the past now what you done and you have done all the correct things to move forward. π
It’s been good, finished up and went for a meal just home now, how has your day been?
January 29, 2015 at 3:38 pm #27580I just think she doesn’t care. She is probably upset about her ex, will miss home and her family and is probably looking forward to being with the other guy, when back. I don’t figure in the equation. π
Sorry, having a bad day, feel really stressed. I am glad you are feeling better. You have done so well and have every reason to feel positive π keep it up and you will get him back!
January 29, 2015 at 3:47 pm #27584She cares! Facebook proved that with her picture, how do you know she is going to see him? you had something special that can’t change…
Don’t apologise we help and support eachother, you have done brill also so let’s smash DAY 17 together π
January 29, 2015 at 4:03 pm #27589She is seeing him. Her friends follow him on Facebook. He posts videos she likes and he changes her Facebook picture into joke ones sometimes. They definitely are seeing eachother.
I just have to hope she misses me (somehow, I mean who misses a stalker who is mean and cheated on her?) and that her parents change their mind, which they won’t. It feels so hopeless. And she wouldn’t have been speaking to him in the first place if she didn’t like him. Not sure how they met. Think it may have been on a night out.:(
Time will tell. Sorry. I feel so down. I cannot think too much into the Facebook picture. It could mean so many things.
I am determined to be more positive tomorrow. Thank you so much π you help me so much
January 29, 2015 at 4:42 pm #27599It’s a rebound! She is still missing you, she’s trying to be happy and move on!
Please keep strong, we can do this π
January 29, 2015 at 4:56 pm #27614Thanks Caz. Just to update you, the profile picture is private again, but she has kept it as her profile picture. So, the lockdown continues. I dunno.
We shall see. It’s not often that a girl is berated to tears for choosing her boyfriend and made to see someone else against her will.
We will do this π
January 29, 2015 at 5:00 pm #27617Oh really? so she’s put it out there, gave it enough time for you to see it and then put it back private and kept it as her profile pic, she’s trying to reach out I think….
That’s I mean she was forced but does not love him as much as she loved you.
Yes we will and we can already see the benefits I haven’t cried in a week
January 29, 2015 at 10:04 pm #27671Bad news….the parents added him to facebook. π
January 30, 2015 at 12:49 am #27680Obviously, they are serious enough to get to this level. We never reached that level. π
January 30, 2015 at 2:57 am #27691I wouldn’t see that as bad news! Remember her parents are forcing this & they possibly want to get attached to him as much as possible.
Day 17
January 30, 2015 at 3:24 am #27699Thanks Caz π I have a feeling they will make a relationship official soon. But she still has that sad picture. Who knows what is going on inside her head π
How are you today?
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