Currently in reconciliation phase and I was wondering if I should reach out on her days off and risk looking calculated or reach out whenever?
I ask because I remember on days she works she is pretty much overwhelmed with errands and all that and I am supposed to associate my texts with positive energy. However I don’t want to look like I am purposely looking for an excuse to reach out on her days off.
It depends on how far into reconciliation you are. If it you are in the early phase then I would still stick to only speaking on days off. I know if I have a busy day at work I don’t want anyone bugging me afterwards when I just want to blob in front of the TV.
It doesn’t make you look calculating but rather you are still respecting her space. She knows that you are there thinking of her so she can reach out if she needs to vent. But otherwise keep to her days off.