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Why would you do it, sri? :S And how could you do it? Are you afraid your ex is seeing someone? Don’t be! How long have you guys been broken up?
Actually i donno why :p
My ex told me that he is not dating anyone but yes i am scared :/
I m scared like hell
I know this insecurity was the prime reason for my breakup
I still have to work on my insecurities :/Its been 50 days since breakup
I just want to know how he feels about me
And what is he talking to others about meWhat he talks about you is irrelevant. Most guys love to play the victim after breakup. Even if he were dating someone or even if he got into a new relationship, it would be a rebound. How long did your relationship with him last?
5 years :/
I asked him indirectly after nc if he is dating anyone and he said no
But i dont know if he was being honest :/I know i shouldnt have asked him… but i saw that he changed his whatsapp dp to a romantic couple dp..i got curious and insecure so i called him that day ..and indirectly asked him to which he said that he is not dating anyone currently
Then i asked him if he likes someone to which he said he has some better work to do then looking for girls
And he said that he can change the pic if it is bothring me
I said no its not
But he actually changed
I get this feeling everytime that he will never love me againCalm down. If he does get into a new relationship, it’s likely a rebound. Unless he was really unhappy and you did hurtful things to him, like using him to get what you want, cheating, you get the picture. I’m betting you did nothing like that.
In the case he lied to you, you have two points of view:
1. He doesn’t want to hurt you (aka still cares for your feelings)
2. He doesn’t want you to interfere with his new relationship.Bear in mind that, in either case, rebounds don’t last long and are usually hollow relationships. They do not tend to succeed. 5 years is a lot of time. Rest assured that he didn’t forget about you yet. Unless he has the ability to erase memories, you are still in the back of his mind, whether it’s consciously or unconsciously.
Yaa so i really should hack his fb id :/
I will never get to know if he was honest about his relationship status or notAnd does that matter? :s If he is, it’s a rebound, most likely! So don’t worry. Be happy. 🙂
Ya i am trying to
Thnx a lot dear for undrstanding
I shouldnt rush into something
Slow and steady wins the race
I should do it slowly 🙁 i should try
If he ever loved me he will come back to meLook, as hard as it may be for us, if our exes really loved us, they wouldn’t be ex right now. If they wanted to be with us, they would. It all comes down to changing their minds. We have to make them go “wow” and think “look at her, she’s so beautiful… so intelligent, so perfect… why did I break up with her? I want her back…”
Think of it as a revenge. They have to feel a little pain. Only then they will value us.And let’s be honest: are we sick? Do we have some sort of health problem by not being with them? Take it from a cardiac patient like me. That guy made me go to the hospital, but I’m still here. Think of the people who are fighting for their lives because of cancer or other terrible diseases. To them, losing a partner is nothing compared to losing their health and well-being. Once you look at death in the eyes and evade it, you will feel the blood in your veins and arteries boil. You will want to live!
Look, which is harder: recovering from cancer, stroke, heart attack, or recovering an ex-boyfriend? Have faith. Have strength! Get up and fight!
Become irresistible. Get into the stuff he likes. Be hard to get. Hang out with friends and let him subtly know you are available for other guys.
Almost all men are stubborn like that. The thing is, it’s consistency that’s making them stick to their decision. They make up bogus lies to protect themselves. Even if they want us more than anything, it’s their word that’s holding them back.
And that’s when we rebuild attraction to get past those defenses.Hi Sri, thank you for you help on my thread. I think that you may need to calm down. I know how hard it is. I know how hard it is to possibly be able to hack and account and not do it. But facebook tells the account owner that his account has been seen from another computer or a place where he wouldn’t usually log on in and he may get mad and it will make things worst. Also how can you live with yourself knowing that you have done something that he would not accept and not tell him? I speak for myself, I would feel bad for keeping something like that a secret from someone I loved, but then again that’s just me. You should go to NC, idk if you have done that yet or not but it feels as if you are still pressuring him. Hope for his well being, be kind and if you are having a hard time try to feel better on your own. I know it is tough but try to awaken his curiosity. Distant yourself and show how wonderful of a person you are and what he has left behind.
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