Should I go?

[Barcal]

Hi,
I’m in a kind of a difficult situation.
But first let me tell you what happened between me and my ex.
So, we were together for 8 months and he broke up with me because he needed to be alone.
Month and a half after we got back together. He was saying all the pretty things about future together.
Well.. Month and something later he broke up with me saying that my feeling are stronger then his.
Week later I discovered that he was texting for like three weeks with one girl and they slept together the next day he broke up with me.
We texted and he said something like that he’s never going back.

Yeah.. So.. That has already been three months.
I haven’t seen him in that time, hasn’t texted him or anything.
Like a three weeks ago I posted something on IG and he liked it. Something that he hasn’t done before. I kind on freaked out but let it be.

Now I’m feeling much better than on the beginning. But I still have feeling for him. Right, other wise I would not be writing here..

Well.. The difficult thing is that my friend has a cabin and she invited me and bunch of our other friends over. We’ll, my ex is going to be there too.. And I don’t know if I should go or not..
Like I think that it’s a great way of seeing for the first time after a long time, because there are going to be other people.
And I can show my improvement.
But on the other hand. What if he’s mad at me or something. What if it’s going to be weird and I’ll destroy the enjoyment for other people.
How am I supposed to act towards him?
What if he’s going to talk with me? What if don’t?
I don’t know.. I don’t think that I’m ready to see him.

I forget to mention that the other girl broke up with him.

And I also still have his t shirt so I thought of giving it back to him.
There’s no point of keeping it. But I don’t know what to say to him.
Here you go. There’s your shirt that I had in my closet for three months 😅

[patricia12]

It seems you’re still obsessing over him. He didn’t treat you very well and he’s immature.. But

If you’re not ready to see him, don’t go. But if you can control yourself, be polite without making a scene (no drama – no rehashing the past etc..), then go and enjoy the company of your friends.

Give him back the T-shirt, but don’t say it’s been in your closet for 3 months! Just say I’m returning your shirt.. or something like that..

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