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I’ve been broken up with my ex girlfriend now for 6months and we were together for about 3 years. We never had any significant issues in our relationship (Cheating, lying, abuse etc) but mainly got it into petty arguments over personality differences.
We had a petty argument back in January that led to a no contact situation for 3 1/2months. I then eventually went to see her too work things out we talked for a few hours and she told me that she just doesn’t see us working out.
Since then we’ve only communicated via text mostly and she’s said 3 times via text and phone that she’s just not sure that she is ready to meet up with me anytime soon.
I asked to take her out for her 30th birthday 2 weeks ago and she said she thinks texting from time to time is cool, and despite that we’ve been broken up for 6 months now, she still loves me and probably always will and that she is in a really happy place right now and has to set boundaries for herself. She also said that she previously told me that we could never be friends.
She said via text twice that she still loves me and she always will but she also continues to remain super cordial, very professional, very distant and appears to have confidently moved on although she just won’t come out and say it.
She also claimed to NOT be seeing anyone new or dating anyone and she has never specifically said that she’s moved on or that she’s done.
She never contacts me and only responds back somewhat quickly & cordially whenever I reach out to her and she just keeps the conversation on general things like work and stuff but never gets into personal territory as well as she has refused to meet up with me a couple of times.
I’m out of options on how to win her back and really need help. She is the woman that I want to marry and feel like I’ve really lost my soulmate. Am I wasting my time?
“..mainly got it into petty arguments over personality differences“. No argument is petty and too many of them can ruin a relationship! What do you mean by personality differences?? Did you ever send a elephant in the room letter?
She doesn’t want to be friends, refuses to meet up with you, and only responds if you contact her first. You already did no contact for 3 1/2 months and the situation hasn’t changed. So yeah, you might be wasting your time. Try to move on the best you can and hopefully someday she will reach out to you and you can make amends with each other. This is a very sad situation..
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