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hey @KD fk that emma girl no way he gonna be with her if he had thought of stopping contact with her when he was with you.
I’m still polishing the letter!
@Mj Haha I like how you put that! I just gotta let him get on with it anyway. Feeling less hopeful by the day but I think that’s probably better for me!
It’s gonna be perfect when you give it to her 🙂
I hope so too KD.
KD maybe one day when your mind is finally free you will be surprised!
Yep maybe Mj maybe! It may just take him a while to realise, and he may need another relationship to realise it too. So could be a long time coming. And I don’t want to wait for him to realise.
@ellie I’m glad to hear everything is good 🙂
@KD Sign, I have these dreams too lately, that he moved on with someone else and I’m not sleeping well because of this. I wish I could forget him already and just move on.
I should stop regretting the mistakes I’ve made and start doing the right things from now on, but I know that it could take some time. I keep thinking about our supposed meeting next week. My mom said that if he still loves me then it doesn’t matter and that he would meet up with me anyway, but after the things he said on the phone that made me feel like he broke up with me again I don’t think anything could happen. It might be that he put his defenses up again but I’m not sure. Anyway I’ve started taking care of myself again, keeping my mind on studies most of the time, going out more and such. But sometimes the memories keep popping up in my mind, which make it a bit hard.
Oh boy.. I had to go my exes favourite restaurant tonight for a friends birthday. Was terrified I was gonna see him. Saw this guy at the bar who looked like him and he was kissing some girl, my heart sank. Realised it wasn’t him but made me realise how not ok I am with it all! It absolutely broke me and it wasn’t even him!!
@KD I can relate to these feelings, even when you start thinking that maybe part of you has moved on you realize that you really haven’t, and how easily it can get to you like this and make you feel bad.
That response is very good! He’s starting to remember the good and put you in a positive light. Wait it out, and BE COOL!!!!! Do not act like you care a lot, keep it casual and simple. Be positive 🙂 It’ll work out.
@kd i hate it when i mistake someone else for her too!
So excited and nervous for tmr..
It was awful! I wanted to run. Even when I realised it wasn’t him!
Is the meeting all arranged @mj?@Mj Good luck! try to stay calm and be cool, and even if it becomes hard a bit stay positive!
I’m thinking if I should ask him to meet up again. When we spoke on the phone he said that it’s my choice whether to stay friends or stop contact, but he said that he wants to stay friends. I’m afraid that if I won’t contact him it would make our situation worse. This week we have a holiday coming up and last year we celebrated it together, I really want to celebrate it with him again this year, we were also supposed to meet up this week. I don’t want to make any more mistakes and I’m really going to take it slow this time, but do you think it could harm trying to meet up again as friends?
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