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April 1, 2015 at 3:53 pm #39478
@ellie96: It’s hard to know why he didn’t text you back, maybe he needed some time to think or maybe he was busy?, that’s what I don’t understand, why they become passive like that after they say they’ll call or text back. I think there’s no harm sending him a supportive message.
April 1, 2015 at 4:03 pm #39480@Oshi I mean I really do think he is busy, but he also knows he can just shoot me a text. I feel like on one hand he is busy but on the other he is trying to get my attention. The only thing that doesn’t make sense though is he opened up to me 2 days ago about obviously something important. So I feel like he wouldn’t play games. But I’m not sure honestly.
April 1, 2015 at 5:25 pm #39505@ellie96: That’s exactly what I’m trying to understand, I know my ex also keeping himself busy with work but on the other hand he opened up to me and makes me feel like he’s trying to get my attention, that’s really confusing, I guess we just have to be patience and as you said they will stop sending mixed signals when they’ll feel ready to send real ones.
April 1, 2015 at 5:51 pm #39514So how do we convince them to send real ones?
April 1, 2015 at 6:35 pm #39521hey guys, I just had another of those dreams again :/ stupid subconscious…
No reply from her too..
April 1, 2015 at 7:30 pm #39526He hasn’t texted me yet… I’m about to start having a panic attack. I texted him through support and I haven’t heard from him yet. I would think that his break would be now. I’m about to cry my eyes out. I have no idea why. I just need someone to calm me down.
April 1, 2015 at 7:57 pm #39532Feeling the same as you ellie… heart wont stop beating so fast
So many thoughts in my head right now
April 1, 2015 at 8:09 pm #39535@Mj I don’t understand why he’s not talking to me though. Not unless he has been super busy which is completely possible. But it is freaking me out. Literally we were great 2 days ago. I don’t understand at all.
And I think you just need to relax only because you guys haven’t talked and you’ve been separated for so long.. Our situations are kind of different just because I have this “best friends” that kiss thing with him right now.
April 1, 2015 at 8:12 pm #39536You’re quite right.. hopefully she’s still asleep.
Do you think fmgiving uim a call will help?
April 1, 2015 at 8:12 pm #39537giving him*
April 2, 2015 at 12:56 am #39553I don’t think its just to be polite. Writing a letter takes time and effort he wouldn’t do that just to say I don’t wanna talk anymore or its not going to happen. I think if he wanted to do that he’d just text u. If its a small step in the right direction than the letter helped
April 2, 2015 at 1:23 am #39559Well I dont think she’ll be replying so I’ll just post it then
April 2, 2015 at 1:45 am #39562Oh guys dunno what’s happened to me. I accidentally text my ex last (was a complete accident) he replied saying don’t think that was meant for me.. I said oops no genuine mistake sorry hope you’re good tho. His reply ” yeah things are pretty good right now 🙂 life is on the up, I’m happy. Hope your good. Off to sleep now tho 🙂 x”
Ugh. Stop drumming it in how good you are! Just have this feeling inside now that it’s completely done, he doesn’t wanna talk, doesn’t wanna see me, feels nothing for me, I gotta wake up to reality that it’s done and get on with it but im really struggling coz that’s obvs not what I want!April 2, 2015 at 1:56 am #39565darn… sounds like he doesnt want to talk much. I feel like I should give up too. just end it. But I can’t!
April 2, 2015 at 2:06 am #39569No he doesn’t wanna talk lol. Hes either playing games or is being genuine. And to be honest, I’m a bit fed up with it all!
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