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March 21, 2015 at 7:44 am #37367
So I sent my ex a letter. Just explaining that I accept the break up, that I’m sorry for how I reacted, where my head was at when we were together.
This morning ive had this text
“Thanks for the letter. Very grown up ๐ can I have your postcode so I can send one back? X”
What should I do? Is this a good sign? Help please!!March 21, 2015 at 7:55 am #37368March 21, 2015 at 8:33 am #37374Well. He is willing to put in effort for you so I think it is good. Now you just have to be patient and wait for it. That way you will know how he feels about stuff ๐ be strong. I know its hard. You can add me on kik if you want to talk kailak19
March 21, 2015 at 9:32 am #37379@kaila he’s gonna send me one so that’s good. He said he wanted to return the favour. But I don’t think it will be what I want to hear. But trying to stay positive!!
March 21, 2015 at 11:55 am #37397That’s good. I’m hoping things go your way. If he wants your postcode to send a letter he must have something to say. I hope it’s what u want.
I’m yet to give my letter, I was going to send it out then she txt me about final bills etc and I asked her out for coffee. She said it was a nice idea but she didn’t feel like she could. Which is fair enough. I said I would meet her quickly next week to sort out our final bills etc and I thought I might give it to her then. But now I’m thinking I might send it out next week and wait a few weeks till I see her to sort the bills. Wait till I’m ready. Not sure what to do?
March 21, 2015 at 1:06 pm #37406@gingerone
He’s told me he has sent his letter to me and that he has so much respect for me sending him one. I don’t know what he wants to say, but I don’t think its gonna be a “we should get back together” letter. But at least I can then put it to bed and just move on.
I don’t know, it might be good to give it to her when you see her! Then it’s done. I felt like a
Weight had been lifted after sending mine!March 21, 2015 at 1:36 pm #37410I’m in the same situation right now. Sent him a letter after NC and he told me that he sent one back, also thanked me for sending it.
I’m afraid that the letter might be a goodbye letter, even though he was nice when we talked on the phone and I felt some mixed signals from him, maybe this could be just my imagination, so confused.
Do you think that a response letter could be a good sign? or maybe if he wanted to get back together he would have just called already?
March 21, 2015 at 2:19 pm #37418@oshi I feel the same. I don’t know what to think about it. People have told me that its a good thing that he wants to send me one back, but I don’t think it will say what I want it to say!
March 21, 2015 at 3:06 pm #37426I think it’s a good thing in some way because it means that they took the time and effort to write back but I honestly can’t say if it would be positive or not..
March 21, 2015 at 3:46 pm #37428Nope. I don’t think he will say what I want, but at least he didn’t ignore me I guess
March 22, 2015 at 5:25 am #37456hey KD i completely missed this post sorry! hope i’m not too late.
I’m glad to see that he had shown a positive reaction to your letter! Hopefully it ends up well.
I on the other hand am not doing well, guess the signs she showed weren’t that positive after all.
March 22, 2015 at 5:32 am #37457Oh KD did you show us your letter before?
March 22, 2015 at 6:02 am #37458Part of me feels it’s positive, but part of me feels it’s going to be negative too. He just
Kept saying he had a lot
Of respect for me for doing it, but wanted to return the favour to me. I don’t think it’s going to be what I want to hear. But I just have to deal with that when it happens. I should receive his letter tomorrow.What’s happening with you?
No, my letter basically just said I accepted the break up, I was sorry for how I reacted, I explained where my head was at when we were together and I hadn’t been in a good place, and that I had sorted myself out and was back to being me again.March 22, 2015 at 6:09 am #37459It could also be him trying to be polite. Guess you will find out when you receive it tomorrow…
I unintentionally saw the guy post of a pic of them together. I wasn’t stalking, and didn’t even follow him on Instagram. I just happened to see someone like it. I shouldn’t be affected but the thought of it just.. sucks
March 22, 2015 at 6:32 am #37460@mj yeah I think he is just trying to be polite. But if that’s the case he’s not going to say anything different from what he said when we broke up. I prepared for that but now it’s come to it I will be crushed!!
Oh no, I think anyone would be affected by that ๐ doesn’t necessarily mean anything though
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