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Sent the handwritten letter and I am wating for her reply since two days…..she is already with someone else….dunno what to do…it has been 2 months since she got into that relationship….I Miss her badly….I need of advice….but I don’t know what should I do…..
She didn’t contact me even once during the NC….what if she didn’t reply to the letter….how should I deal with that???
I wish I could offer solid advice, but can only say this “Hope for the best but prepare for the worst” Last year I sent the letter to my Ex after a couple of months of NC. I never heard back from her. I know she got it as she told some mutual friends of ours that she had received it. You may never hear back from her and you may have to prepare yourself for that. Wish I could offer more encouraging words. Just keep working on yourself and living life
Dunno….how to react…I see her 5 hr a week…everyday!!
How will I deal with it…seeing her going out withsome else….and having fun…when I am still trying to get hold of my life…I dated a few girls…it didn’t help…
In need of advice…any kind of adviceI dont understand my ex … She always pushing ne away from her and deleting my messages but when she got the letter she said thanks that really sweet of u … even i know its nothing much but god i m not giving up
Yeah dude you shouldnt if you think she is worth it…then put in all the effort you can to bring her back!!!
Yeah dude you shouldnt give up if you think she is worth it…then put in all the effort you can to bring her back!!!
my ex and i broke up a bit over 2 months ago. I sent her the letter about a month ago, but at the time she already had a new “boyfriend” (they started dating 2 weeks after her and i broke up). altho he ended up breaking up with her now, she never replied to my letter. In fact she thought it was weird because she was just trying to be happy with this new guy. That might be whats happening with your ex. Maybe just trying to focus on the new relationship. Its probably still in the honeymoon phase, meaning your ex is probably really happy. once that ends that will probably change. For now all you can do is wait.
Today I got to know that she has received the letter…but did not responded in any way….how should I take this??
I wouldn’t ask her out no…. not if she is in a new relationship and she hasn’t responded to your letter!
I think a lot of the problem is that we think too much of “what does this mean, what does that mean, why, what if” etc. We must focus on the present, forget the past and don’t think about the future. I am not saying give up at all, or that you shouldn’t have hope, so please don’t be insulted. Just focus on what is happening right now, focus on yourself more importantly. She received the letter, that’s good enough for now, give her time to process it and think if she wants to reply or not. If she is in a new relationship she will not want to respond yet. Just have some patience.
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