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I’m going to see my ex again at a NYE party on Thursday, and I’m so confused on how to act and what to do. I’m pretty sure he still has feelings for me, and he knows I’m coming to the party and is still attending. The breakdown:
1. Dated two years; NC for almost two months; we get drunk and hook up at a party. He tells me he still has feelings, still loves me, and is now confused. Says he wants to be on friendly terms and talk and see me.
2. Texting and a few calls for a little over a month. I have to initiate 100% of the time. See each other in person; I’m super flirty and touchy but we don’t do anything.
3. We make plans for later in the week. He cancels the next day, says everything is alright though (obviously not). He hates confrontation. Ignores me for two weeks, no explanation, finally answers me this week as if nothing is wrong.
4. Messaged him yesterday, ignoring me again. No explanation. SO CONFUSED.How do I act at the party? Do I pretend like he isn’t giving me mixed signals and ignoring me half the time? Do I NOT be flirty since that seemed to scare him before? No idea what’s going through his head. Appreciate any help.
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I’ve been chasing him and he doesn’t come to me even when we didn’t talk for two months during NC and for two weeks most recently. He hasn’t messaged me first in almost four months, since before the breakup. Pretty sure he’s trying to get over me, but I’m trying to get him back soooo can’t let that happen..
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