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What does a week have to do with it? I thought you were going to ask Tues or Wed to see if he checked his email. How often does he check it?
Well I guess I was giving him enough time to read it and think things through. Don’t wanna seem like I’m rushing him.
Yea, thought about reaching out between today and tomorrow but again didn’t wanna seem like I’m rushing him.You don’t even know if he received the email or read it yet. Think about texting him tonight and just say “Have you looked at your emails lately? I sent you a message there”. Don’t say anything more than that. Hopefully he will say he looked at it or he will check his emails or something like that. Then you’ll have a better idea of when or if he saw it. And then no contact again until he replies to your message. But it might take a long time for him to think about things, so don’t be surprised if he doesn’t answer the message quickly. Good luck:)
So he responded via text indicating he did see the email but told me he has a lady. So I let him know I’ll leave him alone.
I’m so sorry! I’m sad and you must be heartbroken. I pray you eventually find another guy who is sweet (like you) and who will treat you great because you deserve it! God bless you always and take care of yourself..
It’s ok and thank you Patricia for all your help! Crazy part is I’m hurt but not as heartbroken as I’d thought I would be. I’ll just focus even more on my businesses and whenever love comes again I’ll embrace it.
Again thank you so much and blessings to you as well ?Hey Patricia, it’s been awhile since we’ve talked. Had some time to think about everything and questions came to mind that maybe you could answer.
The first would be why would he continue texting me if he and the lady friend were now an item?
Secondly, why would my ex agree to show me how to play spades? (Although he never set a date)
Why would he stress during our meet up that he wasn’t tied to anyone?
Lastly, why would he give me his email address?
Trust me, I don’t expect you to have all the answers and I’m certainly not moping around in pain and heartbreak but those questions just came to mind. Hope all is well and stay blessed!
In view of all that’s gone on, he probably texted you (but not often), gave you his email address, and agreed to teach you spades because he’s basically a nice guy and he was trying to be kind. He may not have been very involved with the other lady friend when you met up with him, but over a few months it’s likely that he became more emotionally attached to her. I’ve read a lot of posts where women write that their ex still loves them, but they don’t want to get into another relationship with them for various reasons. Again, I’m so sorry this happened to you and glad you’re not moping around or totally heartbroken. The only thing I can think of is that it’s only been a couple of weeks since he told you he has a lady, so they may not work out over time and he might reconnect with you. It’s a small chance, but it’s still a possibility. In the meantime, don’t anticipate that it will happen and continue to go out on dates with other guys to have fun. Hope all is still going well with your businesses:)
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