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April 3, 2015 at 3:41 pm #39817
My ex’s birthday is after one month, actually I don’t know if I should continue no contact period more than one month , it depends, so should I wish him a happy birthday or ignore him to make him wonder if I forgot?
April 5, 2015 at 6:13 am #39990Any advice plz?
April 5, 2015 at 2:45 pm #40055I’m sorry but your being to needy. All its doing is pushing him farther away. I know its hard but u can’t contact him like that no matter what happened. U have to move on from it for now and take care of u. There was people telling u not to do it and u still did it. And it made things worse. Stay away from him at all costs. U can do it
April 7, 2015 at 8:44 am #40291I’ve stopped contacting him for 17 days , when should I talk to him again? @ericson
April 8, 2015 at 10:26 am #40374I’m sure he misses you deep inside, but you also have to realize that sometimes it can take a long time before people dare to face the truth, that he misses you. By contacting him again you would do more harm than good in my opinion. Kevin stated 2 months, I’d go with that until that period is over or until he contacts you, in which case you should probably update this.
I went out for NC for a good reason, but it still blew up in my face. Stay strong and try to improve your life in any way possible! 🙂
April 8, 2015 at 12:18 pm #40490Thankyou so much it helps a lot @Mr. A.
April 11, 2015 at 3:14 am #40942My ex texted me at 2 am on whatsapp when I was online, he told me sleep it’s late, I didn’t reply, then he said it’s not important if you reply or not I just want you to sleep and not getting tired, I didn’t also reply, at 4 am he sent me a voice not saying in it I’m so horny can you come? And there was 2 guys also who were saying that, it really made me nervous, he thinks I’m a b*tch or what? What should I do? I didn’t answer , please any help?
April 11, 2015 at 3:32 am #40944I blocked him cz I knew that I won’t support and I’d talk to him , was it wrong block him? Why did he do that? Maybe because I didn’t answer? Or what he’s really weird he never did that or talked that way to me , the worst thing that there’s also two guys with him he isn’t alone
April 11, 2015 at 5:45 am #40965Any help plz? I’m so in a bad mood
April 11, 2015 at 7:26 am #40986April 11, 2015 at 7:27 am #40987April 11, 2015 at 9:27 am #41005You did the right thing by blocking him. He must be thinking with whom you’re talking that late andthats why told u to sleep.
About the voice note, he might be drunk. If he was with his 2 friends at 4am definitely they all were drunk.
You did absolutely correct blocking him. Keep it up
April 11, 2015 at 5:27 pm #41064April 13, 2015 at 1:11 pm #41349My ex’s brother talked to me on whatsapp, he said that my ex told him about the voice note that he sent, and he’s sorry even if my ex is not, cause he doesn’t accept his brother to talk with girls like that, I told him it’s okay and that I don’t care anymore and he’s not the same guy I used to know that’s why I blocked him and that I thought he was drunk but the problem that he wasn’t, so he said that it’s okay. What do you think? My ex wasn’t drunk why did he do that? Maybe he was mad because I didn’t reply? Weird. @divjun
April 14, 2015 at 2:29 am #41459I dont think he sent it because he was mad. Nobody would include their friends in this and that too at 4 in the morning. I still feel he was drunk. if he loves you he would never have done this specially in front of his friends. Keep him blocked! His brother seems to be a nice person
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