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Yes!! Glad to know we got our triggers down. I see it as a secret weapon haha.
Dezzen, if you don’t mind me asking, when is NC over for you? Mine is coming up soon, next week. Hating the anxiety I’m getting.
i got to day 6 and broke it but Im back on track so it’s still a ways off for me I can’t imagine the pressure frankly, just act confident and that you’re happy without her and that you’re all new! LA 2.0
Ok the last e-mail I got today was about triggers n°2 =).
this one was more important to me because the one about perfume ecc ugh didn’t get me especially because I never wear the same ones too long,I always change them.But this one about the clothes and your imagine ….wow….this gave me confidence!
I’m feeling so attractive right now , ahahah the ego is really really big. I’m still tan from vacation, I hitted the gym and go running like everyday,I eat so well that I lost so much weight but I’m still toned.
The only problem is to create the occasion to let him see …. ugh
Geulia,
That’s great! That’s the key to show your ex you’ve changed. I’m in that same place right now! I know exactly what you mean. I’v ready made changes in my life. I’m a new person. LA 2.0. But how can I show my ex this?! I know Kevin lays out a plan for us but it’s easier being said than done. That’s what I’m anxious about. Once I contact my ex how will she react? I have a feeling she wants to forget about me and therefore wond reply or respond to any to anything. And if she does that there’s no way I can asker out and have her see herself what a change I’ve done.
I didn’t receved my e-mail yesterday 🙁
LA:
hey ! I recently finished my NCP and I finally contacted him. We actually went out with everyone in group and everything was great! I think I’ve already leave a different impression on him and also our friends, a sort of great and positive halo and we had so much fun .
It’s a bit long to write on this becasue is not the right post but if you go on my last post you could read what I’ve done if you need ideasAww it’s so nice to see how all you’ve changed!!! I’m so happy for you, LA 2.0 and Giulia 2.0!!!
So happy so see everyone here is on the right track!!
Hey Giulia,
Id love to to read your story. Please if you can add a link to it so I can see.
LA
yes! sorry I forgot that!
https://ebpforums.com/boards/topic/my-evil-plan-more-like-what-i-did-in-nc-and-what-ill-do-to-have-him-back/Does anyone know how long will Kevin’s email series last?
They have been very, very helpful and I really need that dose of inspiration every day!Hi I don’t know you, but I find them one day yes, and one day no.
My last one was about the post break up competition.HEY!
I’m actually feeling great!…still love my ex and I still didn’t give up on our chances, but…man I feel great about myself.
ahahhah the old sad and pitiful me?…pfff in the garbage ahahah
I’ve never felt like this before, and I think my ex is starting to see that, I just need more chances for him to see that this me is permanent and that I’ll never become like before.
I’ve learnt so much from this site and from relationship rewind about my past relationship with him that I think I could make the relationship in the Bliss stage forever , even if not with him.
for the rest I’m just studing,working out,talking to my friends,and waiting for all the occasion to go out all together. I even asked my ex to go see a movie we both like, he couldn’t that night because he needed to study for an near exam, but he didn’t say not ever, so I’m hoping that he’ll ask me when he can.
So in general I’m great!.
how about you? =)
Giulia,
That’s awesome! Love your attitude! I totally agree. This website and Rewind opened my eyes. Wish I would have stumbled on these a little earlier and maybe I would have saved my relathionship.
It sounds like you’re in a good place right now even with your ex. You may not have him yet but you’re getting there. Honestly after everything that’s happened to me I’ve realized that whether I get my get my ex back or move on. It’s going to take time, no matter what.
I’m doing well too. Seriously! A couple weeks ago I was super needy and sad. But I’ve worked on myself and now look at me! I have a positive attitude and I may be starting a new job soon! New beginning for me.
As for my ex. I ended no contact with her. Sent the letter. Couple days later I run into her! I say hi and we talk for a while catching up. Sadly, the time I talked to her I thought id feel love for her again…but I didn’t. I still care for her but I realized that I no longer want her back. We text for a little bit too but yeah things arnt the same. We both have changed and are no longer compatible.
I’m okay with it. Now I’m working on moving on and anything I learn here I will use in my next relationship!
that was one of my fears!
But after ending NC , I understand that I still want him in my life as a patner not just as a friend. I’ve grown up and I know that if he gives me the chance we’ll have an awesome relationship …I just have to come to that talk ahhahaha
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