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Hi my friends,
my story with my ex.Dating about 5 months.I chase her about 5-6 months.we broke up about 1 month ago due to my jealousy and insecure.but she also jelouse and insecure too.
We work together and our job have temptations. (we work in a club).
Due to our seperation the first two weeks we texting each other daily.she wasn’t negative at all.think was positive with me.but we had 2 big fights during this time that grow the distance between us.
Now i am on no contact 12 days but the problem is that i see her 4-5 days in a week
because we work together.we don’t speak at all in these 12 days.i didn’t text her,call
her,i even close my facebook.
She said that she loves me and she needed time and that i push her.the truth is that before the NC I made some of the mistakes that kevin says not to to do.anyway.
Also i realise my mistakes about the insecure and the jealousy part and i ask help from therapist so if we get back together not to do the same mistakes.
But she jealouse and insecure too.when we were seperated she was cheking my messenger when was active and make scenes like we were together!also check my fb and when i was get a like from my best friend who is a woman made me scene again!
The day before yesterday we met at work.we didn’t speak one more time but as the night close to the end i felt that she was expecting me to talk to her.
I love her and its difficult to do the no contact.What do you think about my situation?
Thanks in advanced….What made you think she expected you to talk to her? Anyway, she ended things and if she wanted to talk to you, she could initiate it herself, couldn’t she? I think you’re on the right track, keep focusing on yourself and continue NC and get your things together. She won’t forget about you because you’re seeing each other so I think NC is bound to go on longer in your case to have the same effect. Stay strong is hasn’t been very long!
thanks for the reply LeMatt…i said that because i know her.i saw her how ”lost” was she in her thoughts.don’t you feel that things with your ex?i know she thinks that the break up is my fault only, so se propably expect the first move from me.and she also an egoist…
Another difficult night ahead us.im gonna see her at work and god knows i want to talk to her.
i read an article that NC is only to abuse and manipulate our ex feelings.to force to miss us.
and the only think that NC would do is to drive our exs further away.is this possible?i do not know what to do.really….
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