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She seems to me bud she is playing you for a fool,
If I was you I would be fumming and text her back saying that’s the last time you cancel on me and be done with it but that’s just me bud.
I would just relax forget about it and just ignore her concentrate on yourself man I guess you knew it was coming right she is messing with you taking advantage of a good guy.
Alright buddy
It sounds to me that she is playing you as a fool bud, taking advantage of smart and caring guy.
If it was me I would text back and say that’s the last time you cancel on me and then just ignore her but that’s just me buddy.
I know it will hurt but I think you need to keep yourself busy and just try and move on you know.
And just think you kinda knew this was coming right so know you can concentrate on yourself man get your mates round have a lads night or something and chill.
Friends and family are the most important things in life remember that buddy
I don’t even know if she is taking me for a fool you know. I think she is just refusing to involve herself emotionally. Makes sense. Over.
She just can’t do this weekend.
She hasn’t before really. I cancelled on one of our meets, shouldn’t have but what can you do.
Don’t text anything stupid ChaRlie.
If I remember right, this wasn’t set in stone. Just an idea from 2 weeks ago. So she didn’t really do anything wrong. You just built up hope that she would come. That’s the problem with weekends. Always something else on.
I meet my ex on midweek days.
You remember right indeed. I just said no worries, thanks for letting me know. Thanks for the advice.
Weekends are the only time we have to meet unfortunately!
Ah. That word always pops up doesn’t it. Time. It’s the thing the causes all the worry and fear.
Are you in a place yet were you know that life would go on fairly good without her?
Answer that honestly please.
I don’t know. No and yes I guess. There’s two paths in my life right now. The one I enjoy, and the one that is shit. I love the woman.
Life is fine I suppose.
2 months isn’t that long. Really isn’t. We are split up a long time. I don’t even know how long. I think over 3 months. Could be 5. Could be almost a year long back realistically.
How on earth she still talks to me I don’t know.
So there is always a chance Charlie. Get your head straight. Realise that life will go on
Here is an awful awful thing to say. But what if she died tomorrow. You would continue to live. You can live now knowing that she is alive. That’s a bonus. And so long as you both live you will have hope. She has feelings For you. I think she would like to go back and start again.
That’s were you have to realise that whatever you had is in the past. Done. Over finished. Cherish the memories but don’t let the past dictate what you do now. Look ahead. walk on. The future is coming. Don’t let it pass you by.
That feeling you have is the future whispering a secret to You. That you will be back together. But not today and not tomorrow.
Whatever she does between now and then is her business. Her life and her choice. Ditto for you. So start living. You know deep down it will happen. But it will not happen until you let go fully. That is what is blocking everything.
Let go Charlie. Start living for you. And then everything will fall into place like magic
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