Boards › Reconciliation › Please help me guys.
-
AuthorPosts
-
February 18, 2015 at 1:36 pm #31758
Be patient. She’ll want to look good when you meet!
I just can’t stop thinking about lost opportunities. Like where we’d be now if I’d just gone with your first message.
February 18, 2015 at 1:40 pm #31760I’ll have to be patient. Nothing else I can do.
I had to go back and glance at the messages. Why was that first meeting called off?
February 18, 2015 at 1:43 pm #31762Because I went with everyone else’s advice instead of with my gut.
February 18, 2015 at 1:44 pm #31763It was only three days after she’d text to say it wasn’t to get back together.
February 18, 2015 at 1:45 pm #31764Was reading about all the no contact stuff too at the time.
February 18, 2015 at 3:50 pm #31789How is the waiting game going for you? How are you feeling?
February 18, 2015 at 4:00 pm #31800You know, I was doing well and now suddenly I’m feeling bad. Maybe it’s when she was studying I could guess what she was doing or something.
She text that she was finished and tired and a few bits more and then nothing. No word on meeting up or anything.
But a girlfriend told me that meeting up might possibly now be a bigger thing for her than me. I can only win her where as she hasn’t gone through the losing me part really.
But maybe she said that to make me feel better.Whether you want to believe it or not, you needed this time to think clearer. She said then no relationship again. She didn’t say it this time!
I’ll soldier on.
“And when I get to heaven, to St Peter I shall tell; one more soldier reporting Sir,
I’ve served my time in hell.”February 19, 2015 at 4:57 am #31839Your friend is right. Don’t feel bad!
I like that quote.
She replied to me this morning:
I’m not actually there yet but thanks. Have a nice rest of your week. Xxx
February 19, 2015 at 4:59 am #31840I won’t actually reply till this evening now. I think I know what to say but I’m not going to rush things.
Was going to say:
Oh right haha! So, are we on for Sunday then? Xxx
February 19, 2015 at 5:31 am #31844And there was you thinking that she was down there with this other guy. Your mind was up to no good again. I would suggest a few hours just before a reply. Build it back up again slowly.
It’s hard not to feel bad. Having a rough few days. Not knowing is killing me. She was very eager to meet and talk, and I was the only Person she could talk to etc just at the Weekend. She sent that photo on monday and has text first each day but it’s back now to just a few General texts.
Maybe i am expecting too much too soon. Only time will tell but the waiting is hard. Have to try to ease my mind a bit and Keep busy
February 19, 2015 at 6:28 am #31847I’m not replying yet, but I feel good for some reason. I’ve written a text, I’ll wait obviously:
Look, what are we doing, just come down and see me woman! I’ll pay for your travelling this weekend, it’s the least I can do. The boys will be happy to see you, and I will be too! We can just spend the day together, that’s it. I want to see you! Xxx
FUCK IT PATRICK, LETS GET OUT OF OUR HEADS.
What kind of woman would want guys like us when we’re feeling shit right?
February 19, 2015 at 7:02 am #31850HA. That would be different alright. She might actually like that. Ha
I am Feeling a Little better
February 19, 2015 at 7:37 am #31854Start a new thread man!
February 19, 2015 at 7:44 am #31856You tell him Charlie.
What do you make of my Situation? Is she just taking time to calm down after the exams? She seems to be chatting all day to one of her classmates, a guy. They are Close friends. Why won’t she text me?
February 19, 2015 at 7:55 am #31857Sorry man my bad
-
AuthorPosts
- You must be logged in to reply to this topic.