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  • April 29, 2016 at 3:47 pm #61283
    Leogirl
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    Glad I can help. Today has been a struggle for me. But we can both get through this.

    April 29, 2016 at 3:57 pm #61284
    kiok
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    what happened today? Did you speak with him?

    April 29, 2016 at 4:08 pm #61285
    Leogirl
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    No, but I want to. Thats the worst part. Because I know I shouldn’t and wont,its just killing me not to.

    April 29, 2016 at 4:15 pm #61286
    kiok
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    You have to give him a time too. He have to realize you are not all the time here and start missing you. Btw how long you two were togheter?

    April 29, 2016 at 4:21 pm #61287
    Leogirl
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    Almost 5 months, not very long compared to most. But our honeymoon phase didn’t last very long and we fell really deep for each other.

    April 29, 2016 at 4:33 pm #61288
    kiok
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    soo it was nice relationship..maybe he is just afraid of serious relationship?

    April 29, 2016 at 5:14 pm #61290
    Leogirl
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    That, plus stress.. plus he told me I didn’t appreciate him enough. Which I could’ve fixed, I was just so busy with work. We had an amazing relationship. So part of me hopes he’ll come back eventually.

    April 29, 2016 at 5:16 pm #61291
    kiok
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    maybe he will..but you have to continue NC and be strong 🙂

    April 29, 2016 at 5:22 pm #61292
    Leogirl
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    Oh I will. I don’t plan on breaking it anytime soon.

    April 29, 2016 at 5:33 pm #61293
    kiok
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    me too 🙂

    April 30, 2016 at 4:07 am #61305
    kiok
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    so do you think I can make her to start missing me with this NC?

    April 30, 2016 at 9:34 am #61311
    Leogirl
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    yes, probably. but that’s not what NC is for. its for you to hea and become a better person for yourself and her.

    April 30, 2016 at 9:56 am #61313
    kiok
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    yeah true and I will use it thath way..but really hopping we get back togheter whens she sees the progres I made and when she realized she misss me. Because she is very confused now

    April 30, 2016 at 1:16 pm #61316
    Leogirl
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    Yeah, today has already been the hardest day. I want to talk to him soooo bad. Its been one full week of NC. Im suprprised he hasnt tried to check in with me. It makes it all more real that he’s not coming back.

    April 30, 2016 at 1:47 pm #61317
    kiok
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    cmon dont quit now, you alredy survived one full week 🙂

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