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May 26, 2016 at 4:11 pm #62342
UPDATE: she said to me we can be friends always.. But i decided to go on ship for 2-3 months and leave her alone in total NC. I really think this is my only chance
May 26, 2016 at 6:25 pm #62343Yeah, youre right. Don’t take her up on the offer to be friends. Didnt work out for me and it made things worse.
Best of luck. Did you tell her you were going on the ship?
May 27, 2016 at 1:16 am #62355yeah I did, dont know if that was a smart move
May 27, 2016 at 8:33 am #62358What did she say?
May 27, 2016 at 8:58 am #62359that I dont have to go if I have other posibility and I should do what I think is best for me
May 27, 2016 at 1:37 pm #62361Interesting. Well keep us updated on if anything changes
May 27, 2016 at 1:56 pm #62362why do you think is interesting? ๐ … ofc I will keep updating but I doubt anything is gonna happends now in complete NC. How is going with you?
May 27, 2016 at 2:56 pm #62364Interesting that ahe said you dont have to go.
But things are good. We talk everyday. Mighy see him next weekend. Hoping so. But its hard not yo fall nack into it for me. He sometimes seems distant. So idk. He’s hard to read right now. Which is odd because I usually know what hes thinking.
May 27, 2016 at 3:20 pm #62365yeah but I dont think that means anything ๐ … Oh your so lucky thing are going great for you. Just be yourself in chat and dont worry about other things
May 27, 2016 at 4:53 pm #62366Idk if id say great. But they’re moving. So theres that.
May 27, 2016 at 5:27 pm #62367yeah and Im so happy for you even I dont know you ๐
May 28, 2016 at 3:17 pm #62376she posted on fb song of afrojack- hey. This song is I dont know romantic or not. But she delete it after 1 hour
May 28, 2016 at 7:09 pm #62379I wouldnt think much of it.
Maybe she liked it and decided no one else would.
May 29, 2016 at 4:06 am #62380yeah your right, but I know she never posted anything without a reason, maybe I overthinking. I read on other forum that exes always comes back If you show that you are not interested anymore in them. And I read so much positive stories of cuples geting back togheter after 3-4 months. But I dont know Im so afraid she will never come back
May 29, 2016 at 10:58 am #62384Try to look on the positive side of things. Doing the NC, if she comes back thats amazing. If not you’ll probably learn so much about what you want in a new relationship.
I can tell my ex is having a hard time not jumping right in. He keeps saying “but we wanted to move slow” im hoping seeing him next weekend will be fun and kinda push him to start a new relationship. Im juat scared sometimes that he’s not into it. I know hes trying to find himself before he starts with me againm which is a good thing.
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