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  • #62342
    kiok
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    UPDATE: she said to me we can be friends always.. But i decided to go on ship for 2-3 months and leave her alone in total NC. I really think this is my only chance

    #62343
    Leogirl
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    Yeah, youre right. Don’t take her up on the offer to be friends. Didnt work out for me and it made things worse.

    Best of luck. Did you tell her you were going on the ship?

    #62355
    kiok
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    yeah I did, dont know if that was a smart move

    #62358
    Leogirl
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    What did she say?

    #62359
    kiok
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    that I dont have to go if I have other posibility and I should do what I think is best for me

    #62361
    Leogirl
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    Interesting. Well keep us updated on if anything changes

    #62362
    kiok
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    why do you think is interesting? ๐Ÿ˜€ … ofc I will keep updating but I doubt anything is gonna happends now in complete NC. How is going with you?

    #62364
    Leogirl
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    Interesting that ahe said you dont have to go.

    But things are good. We talk everyday. Mighy see him next weekend. Hoping so. But its hard not yo fall nack into it for me. He sometimes seems distant. So idk. He’s hard to read right now. Which is odd because I usually know what hes thinking.

    #62365
    kiok
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    yeah but I dont think that means anything ๐Ÿ™ … Oh your so lucky thing are going great for you. Just be yourself in chat and dont worry about other things

    #62366
    Leogirl
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    Idk if id say great. But they’re moving. So theres that.

    #62367
    kiok
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    yeah and Im so happy for you even I dont know you ๐Ÿ™‚

    #62376
    kiok
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    she posted on fb song of afrojack- hey. This song is I dont know romantic or not. But she delete it after 1 hour

    #62379
    Leogirl
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    I wouldnt think much of it.

    Maybe she liked it and decided no one else would.

    #62380
    kiok
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    yeah your right, but I know she never posted anything without a reason, maybe I overthinking. I read on other forum that exes always comes back If you show that you are not interested anymore in them. And I read so much positive stories of cuples geting back togheter after 3-4 months. But I dont know Im so afraid she will never come back

    #62384
    Leogirl
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    Try to look on the positive side of things. Doing the NC, if she comes back thats amazing. If not you’ll probably learn so much about what you want in a new relationship.

    I can tell my ex is having a hard time not jumping right in. He keeps saying “but we wanted to move slow” im hoping seeing him next weekend will be fun and kinda push him to start a new relationship. Im juat scared sometimes that he’s not into it. I know hes trying to find himself before he starts with me againm which is a good thing.

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