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May 25, 2016 at 1:23 am #62286
btw that was yesterday so I didnt reply and I was thinking to send her message today
May 25, 2016 at 5:57 am #62289so yeah I reply her and she did responce. At least we are talking but she is serious in conversation. Dont know what to think about that.. I dont want to push her but still I have felling she wants to talk
May 25, 2016 at 9:42 am #62295You can keep talking to her, just follow her pattern, if she takes 2 hours to respond. Dont respond right away.
And dont mention anything about the relationship unless she does first.
May 25, 2016 at 12:41 pm #62300So I got a message from her today. She said that she made her final decision to break up with me. She said she always gonna love me, but the reason she dosent want to be with me more is that because she didnt miss me in this no contact rule. π π π π
May 25, 2016 at 1:34 pm #62302Im so sorry to hear this.. I really though that b her talking to you it was a good sign. Wow, im sorry.
May 25, 2016 at 1:47 pm #62304You dont have to be sorry its not your fault. Me to, she gave me so much little thigs to wake up hope in me and now this.. I’m devastated and I really don’t know what to do now
May 25, 2016 at 2:51 pm #62305So what are you planning on doing?
May 25, 2016 at 3:34 pm #62307Oh I really dont know at this moment π
May 25, 2016 at 7:13 pm #62311I dont either, wish I could help
May 25, 2016 at 7:24 pm #62312not to but in why do I always hear that song and this goes for me as well saying goodbye is never a easything but you never said you stay for ever I think of my situation right now and believe me it is hurting you just don’t know how much I can relate what you are going through just my 2 cents
May 26, 2016 at 1:48 am #62317The thing what is hurting me the most is that she just quit so easy after 4.5 years I was just hoping she is gonna make some effort after so long time to sve this
May 26, 2016 at 9:11 am #62326I wish I knew the answers to your pain.
Maybe NC didn’t work because she knew youd always be there. And there was no mystery that you disapeared.
May 26, 2016 at 11:27 am #62330yeah, I think NC was a bad idea
May 26, 2016 at 11:45 am #62331I dont think was nessesarily a bad thing.
But, I think the best thing now is to go full NC. No checking in type of things. Maybe block her on fb and other social media.
Dropping off the face of the earth might be the best solution to this.
May 26, 2016 at 12:50 pm #62337yeah your right! I was thinking to go on ship for 2-3 months and then see what its gonna happen when I come back. But Im afraid she is gonna find somebody else, but again can she move so quickly in new relationship in 2-3 moths after almost 5 years of our relationship
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