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  • #62006
    kiok
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    its going to be month this thursday, 20 days of NC

    #62008
    Leogirl
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    Thats such an amazing accomplish! I wish I could say the same! Dont worry if she doesnt reach out just yet. She may need more time.

    #62010
    patricia12
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    I have an idea. It might seem silly, but since the two of you (Leogirl + kiok) get along so well, have you thought about forgetting the ex’s and maybe get together? Just a thought. Don’t get mad..

    #62013
    Leogirl
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    Haha, I dont do LD relationships and we dont even know each other.

    #62015
    kiok
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    I can wait more just to get her back ๐Ÿ˜€ …. hahaha patricia we just help eachother to survive this ๐Ÿ™‚

    #62018
    patricia12
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    LOL. How far apart are you from each other?
    Okay, I know you both hope to get your ex’s back..
    Best wishes and good luck:)

    #62048
    kiok
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    She just posted on facebook she felling nervous, she never do thath. Maybe she wants me to ask her what is going on?

    #62049
    kiok
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    I have to ask her, I think she is sending me a signals

    #62062
    Leogirl
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    Did you reach out to her already? If you think its time, then go for it. Youve kept with NC for almost a month now. Thats impressive.

    I had a dream about him last night, where we got back together. It was painful to wake up.

    #62067
    kiok
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    I ask her about her finals, and she answer that she is gonna find out resoults in monday. Then I said to her about what I did accomplishm so far about my new car and job and I still want to live with her and if she wants to talk with me I will be here. And on that she didnt respond anything.

    Oh I also had a dream like that is awful so much pain ๐Ÿ™

    #62072
    Leogirl
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    Oh well it a good thing she responded, but honestly I don’t think it was a good idea to mention that you still want to live with her. Keep up NC and let her be the first one to initiate talking about the relationship

    #62075
    kiok
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    yeah you are right, tnx for advice. Going back to NC and gonna wait her when she is ready to talk

    #62089
    Leogirl
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    I feel like I am getting to the acceptance stage if the break up.

    Like, I still wanna talk to him amd ask how his day is. But not as a ploy to get him back I just wanna talk and catch up. I hope he has these feelings soon too.

    #62100
    kiok
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    oh how long are you in NC now?

    #62101
    Leogirl
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    1 1/2 months since the break up. 5 days NC.

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