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  • #61916
    Leogirl
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    Did you end up posting it?

    I guess I would ask myself what I’d want out of posting it. Or what her reaction might be first.

    #61917
    kiok
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    yup posted it… I am really hoping that is not going to push her away from me

    #61918
    Leogirl
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    Let me know if anything happens.

    #61944
    kiok
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    yes! And you also keep updating me 😀

    #61948
    Leogirl
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    I definitely think hes seeing another girl/ girls. And it kills me inside. He went bowling last night.idk who with, he his that part on his snapchat story. If he was seeing someone new I think he would hide it from me because he knows Id be devastated. But when he syaryed seeing me. He would snapchat pictures of me all the time. Idk, I feel lile im making up excuses for him.

    He graduates grad school today and im not expecting to hear anything.

    #61951
    kiok
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    I really don’t know, maybe he went with friends on bowling dosent mean it have to be some girl. I know thath felling you are to worried what he is doing and you assuming the worst scene scenario. Im doing the same thing what she is doing. Maybe send him some congratulations message

    #61960
    Leogirl
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    Yeah, I sent him a happy graduation day text. He said thank you and then I asked if he was doing anything to celebrate. No response.

    #61962
    kiok
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    oh you have to be patient and wait, have fait, I know its hard for both of us

    #61966
    Leogirl
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    He eventually replied. I hate this though, I need to go complete NC. Im so depressed with the signals because my ex isnt someone who stays single. So its killing me. Its making me break down.

    #61972
    kiok
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    yeah I also think you should go complete NC and wait to see what he is going to do

    #61973
    Leogirl
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    Thanks, I agree. Yesterday was just such a bad day all the bad feelings came flooding back. NC day 1 again. If I ever feel like taking to him, Ill post here first.

    #61978
    kiok
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    Im so sorry to hear that. You have to make him to miss you and NC is the best way. Yeah if you need to send him anything just post it here. 🙂

    #61993
    Leogirl
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    Thank you

    #62000
    kiok
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    I’m so nervous if she contact me this week, I dont know what to expect bad or good news

    #62005
    Leogirl
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    Has it been a month already? How long NC?

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