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Just an update, he text me earlier. I didn’t see that coming. He said “You never actually tried talking…” I made up an excuse (kinda) that I was but I dropped my phone in the sink, but that did happen lol. ANd then he sent me a selfie on snapchat which he used to do when were dating
NC For at least 3 weeks. She contacted me. We had lunch. She couldn’t even look at me. But she is now coming around. We are just really taking it slow. I think she needs to see improvement in me. When she left on Dec 11. I weighed 209. Now I weigh 173.8. (Yes I have been eating). She flipped out when she saw how much weight I have lost. Got a new car. Plus the guy she is hanging out with is 30still lives at home with his mom and Daddy has no job has no car. I have a job and supporting myself. So yeah what a rebound….. We have been texting each other for 2 days in a row. Just normal conversation.
@confused_girl but then in that case how do you ignore the messages of the nightmares you have where you see your ex marrying someone else? LOOL thats a coincidence.
He will think you’re just acting reserved and he will try to show a more obvious flirty move and then it will bring a reply in you that he hopes. Aren’t you two meeting up this week?Uh, I never had those dreams…you have me confused with someone else. I told him and he said “Oh..” I don’t think he fully understands how I felt
I told him I was happy and he said “You’ll be truly happy if you move on…” wtf? He’s the one flirting with me lately. What do I do?
@Ryan6611 I felt like that lol well the guy she rebounded with had a car but he was immature he wasn’t even as caring as I was he was using way too much slang he always would just use immature comments and my girlfriend said that at first it didn’t mind but then it started getting annoying. Just remember the first time a couple go out the people are on their best behaviour and then slowly the cracks in the fake image can be seen and thats when she will realise he’s just not you. My gf keeps saying that to me that even though he didn’t treat her shit, he just wasn’t me. Try to change you body in a positive way so have a good loss of weight not a bad loss.
@Confused_Girl no I am just saying that with me I had those dreams so I was simply applying your logic to it and claiming that I stopped believing in my positive dreams as messages because then I would have to believe in the nightmares and I didn’t want to do that. Wait what made you tell him that you were happy. Has he moved on?I felt the need to tell him I’m happy, cause I rather am happy. He’s said he’s moved on right after we broke up, but he still contacts me. I think that if he didn’t care, he wouldn’t have bothered texting me and still wouldn’t be contacting me
@Confused_Girl so are you guys meeting up then ?
No, I want to send him this text
That wasn’t where I was going, but I honestly am happy. I forgot to say that;s how I felt before we all the crap happened. I wasn’t in the right mind. I only said we needed to talk cause we really do need to talk about stuff. Not just me.
And he sent me a selfie yesterday like he used to when we dated
@confused_girl how long has it been since you’ve done NC ?
I did it in December, but we would contact me every day and he asked if I was even going to talk to him. Which I find weird now, he told me he was over and all that crap, but his actions said other wise, they still do
@confused_girl yeah it is bait weird when they have convey mixed emotions, do you act distant with him?
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