Not sure where we stand – Strategy for moving forward.

[patricia12]

@sirdesancti1 You wrote:”This year in August, I moved in which her”. Did you mean Aug 2019? I’m assuming you were living with her in Germany, but you came back to the States in December after the breakup?

Are you being treated for your anxiety/depression?

I agree with you that you two will get back together at some point:)

[sirdesancti1]

Latest update, she texted me today (I haven’t texted her since Easter) saying “Hiii, how are you doing?” within a few texts she asked me to FaceTime. It was a normal conversation made her laugh, she brought up some old times. Didn’t get emotional but yea. I kept it freidnly. Sound good?

[sirdesancti1]

Latest update is she actually texted me today. “Hiii, how are you?” is what she said. Soon after she asked me to facetime. We had a normal conversation nothing emotional. But I made her laugh a bunch and she brought up some old memories. This sound good?

[patricia12]

@sirdesancti1 Yes, the fact she initiated a text, asked to FaceTime, and you had a normal fun conversation is good! What did you say when she brought up old memories?

Are you in therapy for your depression?????

[sirdesancti1]

I added to thhe memories. She has been making tie die tees and I said I had some tie die material and she said “why didn’t we do that when I was in New York with you?” I brought up memories too. She talked about our trip to New Zealand as well.

Yes, I have been in therapy since November. It has helped alot

[patricia12]

@sirdesancti1 It’s all good..

Glad therapy is helping you:)

Take care and be safe.

[sirdesancti1]

Most recently we’ve had some nice conversations. Nothing ever too serious. I did not talk to her for 3 weeks, then she texted me to facetime. It’s still very hard to tell what she wants, or if she even knows. But she still texts me blushing emojis. And wished my mom happy birthday today.

[patricia12]

@sirdesancti1 It was nice of her to wish your mother a happy birthday:)

And it’s good that you’re having nice text and face-time conversations too.. She’s in Germany and I think you’re in the United States, but are you still planning on going to a university in Germany this coming fall season?

[sirdesancti1]

Yesterday was her birthday. I texted her and she responded with the smiley with 3 hearts on it. Seems to be a good sign

[patricia12]

@sirdesancti1 Yes, maybe a good sign. Are you still planning on going to a German university? And if so, when?

[sirdesancti1]

I would be going in August

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