Boards No Contact Rule No contact tips when breakup was due to little contact

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    Oliver789
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    Hi, I’m recently out of a relative short term relationship that broke down because the girl I was felt she was putting in more to whatever we had than me and understandably didn’t want to chase me. I’m also relatively recently out of a much much longer relationship and this girl was concerned that I hadn’t properly moved on.

    My question is, how do I approach No Contact when the reason for breaking up was me not contacting enough? Also, how do I do demonstrate that a) I have moved on and B) want to increase the amount we see each other and talk without now coming across as either fake or needy.

    Any advice would be much appreciated.

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    patricia12
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    @Oliver789 How long was the relationship? Why does she think you haven’t moved on from your previous relationship?? How often did you see each other?

    No contact might not be appropriate for your situation. You should probably talk with her and ask how you can demonstrate that you’ve moved on from the previous relationship and what does she think you might do to show your interest. If you didn’t ask to see her enough, and have the time, simply ask her out more often..

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