No contact over and ex didn't contact me… Now what?

[YBSM]

She broke up and told me she didn’t love me anymore because of all of the figuts we had. I didn’t really panic or try to contact her after we broke up, I tried telling her I know we can work it out, because the fights were really me showing I care.
Anyway, it’s been 35 days since I last tried to talk to her, and she hasn’t contacted me or anything. We are each other’s first loves. She is the stubborn type – she would run away from problems. But I don’t even know if I should try if she says she doesn’t love me… Hurts like heck

[kaila]

Are you feeling happy about yourself and all? The next step is contacting her. You must re read the 5 step plan

[Gingerone]

Try sending here a letter heres a draft of one in going to send to my g/f when I’ve done no contact for a bit

Here's my letter! What do u think?

Have a read tell me what u think?!

[YBSM]

Should I be discouraged by the fact that she said she didn’t love me, and that she hasn’t contacted me since? She had been telling me she loved me earlier that week, but then told me she had been lying and hoping it would come true

I like your letter, Rusty Red. I, personally don’t know where she would find the impulse to contact you after reading it. Where can I get a sample/template letter?

[YBSM]

I really do like it though. I think it tells her you still care, and that is a lot. Since I have never read the sample, I don’t know what is recommended. But having re-read it, it is even better than before

[Gingerone]

I’m not sure about a sample letter I just wrote it from the heart hoping she melts and wants to try again it’s a massive gamble. Just write how u feel. Could you possible read my story and give me your opinion. I need another’s prespective

Confused

[Phonis]

i don’t think you should be discouraged.she may think she’s moved on or maybe she has. But if you follow the plan you can win her back, because when someones had feelings for you before its a lot easier to get them attracted to you again.

[YBSM]

Thanks for the input, guys. I think I will try to talk to her this weekend. I am happy with myself, have gone on a date, kissed other girls, plan on talking to others as well, but I still love her.

The reason I haven’t is because it still feels sort of gross inside my stomach, but I think it feels good enough to carry out a conversation that won’t result in a fight.

[Gingerone]

I just txt my ex, we had things to sort I.e stuff she left in our old flat. She didn’t reply with and x at the end this worries me. I rang her then and she didn’t engage me like she used to, gutted about this, thought she might have softened so upset!

[YBSM]

I think she’ll be ready to talk in a month. And you will be too! How old are you?
Just put her stuff away and do what you want/need to do

[Gingerone]

I’m 30 she’s 25

[YBSM]

Yeah you need time to think. It helped me. It was hard for the first week, but now I almost don’t want to talk to her in fear

[Gingerone]

I txt and called her just now we had things to sort out about stuff she left at our old flat. In the txt she didn’t reply with an x at the end like we have been doing since our split. Also on the phone she didn’t seem the same with me

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