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I feel really really bad today. I’m afraid that I am misunderstanding all the things that he’ saying. I’m seeing him in 2 weeks for the “surprise” and i’m not sure whether I should contact him or if i should only contact him the night before telling him what time it is at. Someone please help?!
calm down your doing great. 🙂 dont think to much of the things he said until you meet up with him. this way you wont find yourself going crazy till then. how long was it since you last talked to him? timing would I think determine when is better to contact him. 🙂
I spoke to him on saturday.. But the thing is.. should i contact him before or not?
I think its still to early, I think you should give it a few more days before contacting him again. maybe Friday. cassie can you give me your opinion on what I just wrote. I feel confused,depressed,sad, and broken. 🙁 thanks 🙂
In that case, I will wait a bit. I am just really really depressed today.. I feel like he is shutting me out and wants nothing to do with me…
yes you dont want to contact him to soon and it to make you seem “needy”. I feel you, why dont you do something that would make you happy or eat something you like. just do something that you know would make you happy. dont think this way. at least your gonna be able to go out with him and have something to look forward to. then you can see where ya are at and go from there. 🙂 stay strong and positive. your doing great. 🙂 keep me posted.
cassie hows everything? could you read my old post and new post and tell me what you think? thanks 🙂 hope all is well with you.
Everything with my ex is going really well but i’m just getting more and more depressed. I spoke to him on wednesday and he was really nice and said some really positive things which makes me so happy but i’m at a point now where i miss him so much i dont know what to do with myself and its so freaking annoying. I am so happy after speaking to him but then i just spiral right back down. He told me how he missed me, was looking forward to seeing me and how he was still hoping we’d get back together, still keeps smelling my perfume etc … Obviously i dont tell him how horrible I feel, when i speak to him I really do make a huge effort to stay strong. I asked him why he wasnt contacting me and he just said that it was really hard for him and then i asked him whether or not he even wanted to talk to me and he said he really likes when i call and he feels so much better after so … i dont get it.. Why is it so freaking hard for him to contact me?
cassie it seems your doing everything right and everything is looking up for you. 😀 I feel really excited for you. 🙂 dont get depressed. keep strong your doing great. it seems like your so close at getting him back. keep doing what your doing. 🙂 I think “Why is it so freaking hard for him to contact me?” it may be a pride thing or maybe a defense thing he has going on. I feel like you guys are going to be getting back together soon. cant wait to hear you say that. 🙂 keep me posted. 🙂
Yeah, i’m also starting to think it might be a defense thing of some kind to protect himself. I really hope that he’ll want us to get back together again… I spoke to him again today and he was quite nice. He was nicer to me the last time we talked but he still said that he hoped we’d get back together again but that he was still so confused if he made the right decision or not. I asked him if he wanted to go for a walk tonight but he said no coz he had a friend coming over but that he wanted to see me soo.. i’m just looking forward to next tuesday where i’ll be seeing him. I hope that it will be so great that he is gonna start wanna seeing me more again. I really really hope that i won’t do anything stupid.. Will let you know how it goes 🙂 Thinking i should call him again in a few days time? What do you think?
Yes definitely call him in a few days, he is being nice and giving you positive signs, everything seems to be working out, I am happy for you!! I think hereally likes you, but he is confused as you are too, thats completely normal, so just relax everything will work out(:
Thanks so much for your reply 🙂 Great, then i’ll give him a call in a few days time.. I also dont want to come across too strong – it’s such a hard balance – but i figure that he will let me know if it gets too much.. I am really trying to control myself. Yes, I am so so so confused.. everything really seems like such a blur – i really hope it will all work out!
Sometimes the hardest thing to do is to take things slow and at a distance. You both need time to heal so you both could have a fresh start in the relationship. I believe things will work if for you two but in the mean time focus on you. I know he cares for you and in the end it’s gonna benefit with a better relationship! Read my story it may give you a few needed laughs and have faith!!! It will all work out in the end!
Thanks for your reply – i really appreciate it! 🙂 Yes, I am trying to focus on me but it’s difficult. You are also completely right, taking things slow is really the best thing to do and I hope that I get better at accepting that he is taking his time. I also know that if he does come back, then he really does want it so I guess that will be a good thing. At this point I am just happy that he hasnt given up on a future with me. I wish i could just persuade him a little bit faster!
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