Need Help,Should i keep trying or move on,its been more than yr now.

[kalicooldude]

Hi Anth,

Thanks for reply.Sorry for confusion.My ex g/f gave me mixed signals,i mean she went out with me out to city a month back and let me hold her hands and kiss on side.And called more often like 1/2 times in day.

Her mother was sick so I went to hospital with flowers,and all of the sudden she said oh lets do engagement on oct 1st I was little surprise and shocked but same time,I knew that she is not been staying on her words and as well her actions.

Sept 15- Lets do engagement.
Sept 15- Trip to city.
Sept 23- Looking for dresses.
Sept 26 or I guess 27- Looking for rings( I didn’t buy her ring so she was pissed off as she expected me to buy her ring same day) I said you can pick one and I will buy before Oct 1st.She became very pissed off & angry.
Sept 29- I called her and she said don’t come for Engagement,now its too late.

Oct 1st- She puts picture of guy first alphabet, which is the same alphabet of her also new guy(who is her 3rd cousin,comes from her mom side)
Guy goes in Facebook and says(Thanks for coming into my life love you-so much)

Oct 9th- I try to say hello to her and she is like (Her wedding is been fixed and her family is happy and as well she is,i hope you understand) I said are you marrying to same guy who commented on your facebook picture she said YES.

After that I never spoke to her or said anything at all.

Oct 8th- Guy puts Facebook profile picture where he is holding her and they are dressed, people friends gave them congratulations and happy couple messages.

Thanks Anth,i hope we get peace and love again in our life,It just hurts so much and I have turned to be so hopeless and unromantic guy.

[anthurium]

Kali
This lady is not right for you. She has played terribly with your feelings. You deserve so much better than this – you are a very romantic guy and not at all hopeless. The story you tell is unbelievable (but I do believe you) – to suggest that you two might after all this time be getting married and then plan to marry someone else just because you didn’t buy the ring on the day. I really hope you can cut this lady out of your life completely and start again afresh.
You will find happiness again, I know you will. You are a kind and loving person
Warm wishes
Anth

[kalicooldude]

Hi All,

My ex girl friend already married now to someone with one of her third cousins.She kept me as back up.

My love story is over now and moral of the story is if you go thru break up,you should set up timelimit to get back.If your partner doesn’t come in that certain period please move on with your life.

I spent 2/5 years of my life trying to get love back of my life and I mean really tried and now she is already married.After the break up my efforts were 99 % and her was 1 %

I made myself really fool and she moved on and already married.Its fine god is great.

[Anna]

Hey Kali,

I will not say sorry to hearing that. There is one saying: When we lose something we don’t know what we gain.
It doesn’t matter if she had used you for a back up or not. It’s her life and she makes the decisions about it. People marry and divorce all the time.
It hurts no doubt, but we can try and learn a lesson so it doesn’t hurt next time. Because all we need is true love. Just keep your head up and never give up!

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