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December 23, 2014 at 6:43 am #20582
Follow what kevin says about the NC at work, keepping conversation short and friendly. This guy still loves you that is for sure but you need to work on yourself first before winning him back! You have a great chance at winning him back just avoid having long discutions with him, stay friendly but not too friendly and avoid talking about the break up or past relationship.
December 23, 2014 at 7:43 am #20591So my ex knows that im a great guy, im mature and that i know where i am going in life she said it to my mom when they went for breakfest. She did not say whether or not she was happy with the new guy, just that she wished she could of told me instead of me learning it by someone else. She seemed flatered at the fact that i still care and my mom told her that i was still interested she did not look suprised at this news, she wasnt upset about it she felt flattered.
December 23, 2014 at 9:22 am #20600Wow thats good news samuel. π everybody seems have good news right now or good respond while im like…here in hospital alone. But thats good. Did u still text her?
December 23, 2014 at 9:34 am #20604Dont worry everyone went threw your situation before it got better and i texted her good morning today which made her laugh
December 23, 2014 at 9:42 am #20606Samuel…i feel like im giving up. I really do. My bestfriend told me that he is updating new status and said “u are sick now but u still act cute” :'( he said about his new gf. I sick too but im here alone while she has him now. Completely fine completely happy. Its been 3 weeks of Nc and i dont even have a shot :'( how can he forget about me and be with her happy with her so fast till now?
December 23, 2014 at 10:06 am #20610I want to give up now. I’m not seeing him today. And he doesn’t even sound interested right now. Is he doing the hot/cold thing? I’m scared to ask if he even meant what he said the other night. I told him we didn’t have to hang out all day and he said no, it’s okay. I’m rather mad about it. What do I do? π
I thought I was finally getting somewhere and my work was starting I show more and more, but now I’m questioning everything. Someone please help me
December 23, 2014 at 10:11 am #20611How hot and cold is he?
December 23, 2014 at 10:13 am #20612I just think that’s what it is. He sounded happy to talk to me the other day and now we’re not hanging out today :(. Is that what that is?
December 23, 2014 at 10:14 am #20613Both of you are overthinking your situations, you both have a shot!
Keep working on yourself stop getting updates of him its hurting you too much. When NC is over contact him and show him he is better off with you then her by being interesting funny and outgoing
@confused girlYou have the best situation out of all of us. Your ex wants to see you! Go and meet him today and go with the flow, give him some oppertunities to make moves and if he dosent touch his hand. Make your moves, evaluate your situation but dont over think!
December 23, 2014 at 10:16 am #20614But we’re not seeing each other today. He said something came up. I’m not going to talk to him until he does. I’m rather mad about it. I suggested Friday and he might have to work. So I’m just gonna let him talk to me first. I’ve put south work into getting him back and I was so freaking close to happening soon and now I want to give up
What do I even reply to him? He said no, it’s okay. This is why I need help with everything to say cause I will mess something up
December 23, 2014 at 10:28 am #20615December 23, 2014 at 10:34 am #20617Well Sunday he was all flirty and sounded happy to talk to me an he said he wanted to see me, and yesterday and today, he just sound interested. And it’s weird cause well, he snapchatted me at 4 in the morning Saturday saying he misses me, we made plans and now it’s not happening.
I asked him if we were hanging out today and he said something came up, I said we didn’t have to all day and he said “no, it’s okay”. I asked about Friday and he has to work. I’m rather mad, upset and confused now. I’ve worked so hard to get him back and I thought it was finally gonna happen π
December 23, 2014 at 10:39 am #20618Perhaps he is really has something coming up. Dont be mad. Just support hum and the truth will come up. Stay awesome because he is fine with u and u know that. U are lucky and u have opportunities. Have faith for it since he is respond and express to u even just a bit.
Im not and i tried not to overthink about it. But thats the fact. He is still with her. Happy with her. So much until he update everything about her. He never said anything like missing me or anything. He even hurt me by updatibg those things. Even tho i remain silence but im not dead. Both of them are so rude and im so sad because they even happier than me. I really want to give shot but at the same time i do want to give up because my hope really slim unlike u guys. U guys have received good respond and good stories like u, u know she is not happy. She is stubborn but still she is keep talking about ur positiveness and @Confused_Girl…what can i say…u are not confused but u are lucky π but u are afraid too much or too worried about something good that might happen to u. Have a fairh dear π u worked hard for this.
December 23, 2014 at 10:46 am #20621I do have faith in us. I want something good to happen. My gut has been telling me that something good will happen lately. I’m just mad because I’ve worked so hard for this, and then this happens. He sounded interested to talk to me and what he said about my second chance and now he goes all hot/cold, push/ pull whatever it is. I am confused now. I just don’t know what to do now
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