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November 10, 2014 at 3:16 pm #15327
Yeah time is the worst enemy because you cant make every day in your life so full to do stuff that i dont end up to think the past, you end up someday to be with only yourself and then you start thinking stuff.. i know because i did that too..and this week im counting days and nights till end of the week π
November 10, 2014 at 3:33 pm #15328Omg he just popped up at my house
November 10, 2014 at 5:51 pm #15341what happened??
November 10, 2014 at 6:02 pm #15342Well he hasn’t really said much. He was watching me walk around my house. He picked up my cell phone. I made plans to go out before he came over so he’s offering to give me a ride. I said no thank you. He asked me where am i going. Mind you he’s supposed to be in school right now.
November 10, 2014 at 6:03 pm #15343Niice!!! keep on doing what you’re doing!
November 10, 2014 at 6:08 pm #15344Thank you. He walked me to the car lol.
November 11, 2014 at 12:58 pm #15443November 11, 2014 at 1:42 pm #15447@Mj321 I didn’t send him anything because i read that you can’t break NC even in occasions
November 11, 2014 at 1:48 pm #15448Ok And how does that make you feel?
November 11, 2014 at 1:55 pm #15451I dont feel guilty but I feel sad that he didn’t reach out to me
November 11, 2014 at 2:28 pm #15456I understand. Did you get the results? How are you feeling?
November 12, 2014 at 7:05 am #15524N maybe he contacts later some time..my ex contacted me 5 days later during when i was ANC ( active no contac ) after i text her everything i wanted to say to her..and off the topic π but just got message from my ex that her x-ray was nothing serious and i take it as a good sign that she send that info by herself and i didnt even contact her today at all..of course i answered the text. can i get woman”s opinion to 1 thing?i talked to my ex gf yesterday on Fb messaging and i didnt even asked what was she doing same time we texted each other a little but she told me, okey it was little thing that she was eating a salad and told me what was in there, is it a good sign?
November 12, 2014 at 7:18 am #15525Yes it’s a good thing. If i wasn’t interested in you or comfortable i wouldn’t conversate at all. So i take it as good. Just don’t over think it.
Can i get your perspective?November 12, 2014 at 7:24 am #15527My love hasn’t reached out to me in almost a week. We have a child together. Although he popped up on me the other day. And i spoke with his mom and she said she spoke with him. He told her that he is hurt but he does plan on being with me eventually. That we just have to work on some things. But he hasn’t reached out to me. How do i know he’s thinking of me?
November 12, 2014 at 7:52 am #15529im luckily not over thinking it.its just little surprising after they way she was texting me earlier because it was mostly ( ok ) or something short and no :)/ π well you get the idea.. but i bet he is thinking you because you got child together it the moment what you cant forgett ever and he just need time.. i know how you are feeling because i had those moments too with my ex because we after our break up didnt speak at all some times a week or two weeks and you get the fear they have forgott you and move on or something other bad thing comes to mind..if you are thinking him i bet he is thinking you too π think that way because he is planning future with you..
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