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So i had an extremely tough night. Very emotional. My love will be here in 2 hours. I’m trying to calm myself down so i don’t ruin everything. I don’t want to get emotional in front of him. I just really want my family back together. I want my soul mate! Any advice so i don’t ruin the time I’m alone with him? ?
Everything was going well and then he brought up our relationship. I let him know how i feel and that i want our family back together. He said deep down he wants that too. But he has a lot of lust inside of him. And not ready to be in a relationship with anyone. (We’ve been together since we were 17/18 now we’re 24/25) HE never says we don’t have a chance he just says he needs time. Like 1-2 years!! He saw how this is affecting our son. And i poured my heart out again. I think we need to not be in face to face contact at all for awhile. I’m trying to fight. I pray he comes back!
Also he said he doesn’t have any emotions.and he loves me because we’re supposed to love everyone. 🙁 HE brings the subject up and gets upset when i try and talk! Idk. What do you think? @N
Not being in contact with him is the best sulotion right now, you need space so he can miss you, miss you is the only way to get him back, don’t break down now you have a sulotion to this situation
He’s mad and hurt, even if took you back for now he’ll realize that he’s still mad and will break things off again, time is your best friend now
I agree. From listening and observing him i feel we have a chance he just needs space. And I’ve been a bit lacking with giving that to him. I have to make sure we’re not alone with each other and possibly avoid seeing him as much as possible. I won’t respond or reach out unless it’s urgent and has to do with our son.i haven’t been trying to get things done without him. I have to. I see now that it’s the only way to get my family back. I’m willing to do just about anything
I believe i have a great chance. I just have to play my cards right. That’s the hard part! Acting off of my brain and not my heart. I have to find something to do to keep me occupied.
When i first started nc he was reaching out to me. Then we had an emotional weekend. So i tried it again this week and it wasn’t as effective as the first attempt. Now i have to see him this weekend. I need a plan to avoid seeing him as much as possible. I need to really Stick to nc. Like seriously no games. I just have so much free time that it’s hard. I’m nervous. But i have faith!
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