My Situation

[Pinguisking]

Hiya,

I just wanted some advice on my situation. In short, met a woman (38) online. I’m 42 with 2 kids and we dated for about 4-5 months. She said she had an issue with the fact i had kids as she wanted to be someone’s ‘priority’. it was very intense, we got on amaingly well, and spoke for hours on the hpone every day. She was alwasy telling me things like she missed me loads, dreamt about me, wanted to be with me again etc etc

Then after 5 months suddenly she said she didn’t want to be with me anymore, as she couldn’t make me happy. This was the day after saying she missed me and hoped i missed her! I said that i wanted to be with her, thought the world of her, wanted her to make sure she wasn’t thinking with her head not her heart etc but that i wished her well and would miss her. A few messages went backwards and forwards where i told her i loved her, she said she didn’t feel the same. And then out of the blue without any crossed words or arguing or similar, she then told me to F*** off and blocked me on whatsapp and instagram!

That was 3 months ago, and i’m still blocked and not heard from her since.

It’s been eating me up inside ever since. Why did she tell me to f off and block me? And is there any chance she’ll ever reach out and unblock me?

[patricia12]

My gosh! She told you she had an issue with you having kids and that she wanted to be someone’s priority. This sort of attitude would come back to bite you in the long run and affect how she treats your children. You dodged a bullet! Be grateful and move on..

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