It’s a long story, so I’m going to keep it short. If you want more details just ask and I will do my best.
I broke up with her 5 years ago by cutting contact completely.
I got in touch 4 months ago. She told me she was seeing someone, but that she was open to hear what I had to say.
I sent her a friend request and told her what I felt and left it at that.
She ignored the friend request, or at least saw it but didn’t chose to do anything.
3 months later I saw that she has accepted it.
Why did she take so long?