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Right, I’ve asked for views on this before, she hasn’t removed our relationship status on social media, should i take it upon my self to do so. Also if she doesn’t contact me by the end of my 30 day nc( I say 30 day as I feel I will be in a much better place by then) should I contact her or leave it longer, I have a plan for what I will say.
After NC, if you have a plan, then I would say go for it. If it doesn’t bother you too much, you don’t have to remove the status on social media. It may mean that she still isn’t over you and that you still have a chance. When you do meet her, be sure to show your positive changes, always be kind, nice and gentle (:
Yeh doesn’t bother me at all, the people that matter to us know.i was going to say something like this ‘ hey stranger, parked next to a car just like Penelope today ( name for her old car ha ha) reminded me of you, fancy meeting up for a coffee one morning/afternoon??. Something to that effect.
Do you guys think that sounds ok. If it goes well would it be a bit much to suggest meeting again, for coffee/cinema. Probably shouldn’t be but I’m just trying to plan ahead.
day 8 of nc and it’s getting easier hardly thought about her at all today. Good progress
I thought it was getting better, well it was, until a friend posted a picture( forgot to infollow her ) of the girls a year ago. My ex looked so happy.
Suppose I thought I was just addicted to her, but it hurts so much knowing I won’t get her back. She told me there was nothing I could do and I think I might have to except it.
I’m not breaking nc, I can’t see the point at this stage but I really want to :(.
removed the relationship status on social media, thought it was about time, not heard anything from her as yet and im yet t contact. still miss the ex a lot but do yu guys think contacting her after no contact is a good idea.
Feel for you brother. im going through the same shit with my ex gf. its bloody hardcore man. but chin up mate . it does get easier. i was with my missus for 5 years. then she dumped me for various reasons. its been 6 weeks since we broke up. i begged and pleaded for nearly a month to try get her back but with no luck. so now im on NC been 2 weeks and its very hard im sure you know what its like. the worst thing is when you see your ex on FB and she is in photos with other guys:( ive seen this on a number of times with my ex and it totally rips my heart apart. anyway all you can do is try better yourself. me personally ive been hitting the gym 5 times a week doing weights , changed jobs and trying to live a healthy lifestyle. all this has helped. ive tried to forget about her for the moment and just concentrating on myself because that what really matters. my happiness and sanity. i suggest u do the same man because there is no guarantee u will get back with her. so forget her and worry bout yourself. man up . power up and power on.
the one thing you need to accept its hard but its true. that you may not get back together. when u accept that things will get easier. but make sure u go out and improve yourself . this will make u feel better
Cheers jb, I’ve started taking part in more sports to occupy my time. It’s tough isn’t it. But we’ve got to battle on. When one door closes another door opens
Although my ex puts nothing on fb and we parted well. I still feel I have to block her.
ive unfriended the ex from facebook, makes it easier to deal with. feels slightly childish but i had to do it
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