Boards Reconciliation met up with my ex, what do i do now??

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  • #35662
    KD1988
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    Yeah there is no harm in contacting her. Just try and keep it light and breezy πŸ™‚

    #35664
    geodj
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    I agree it’s no harm to send a text.do it and tell us what happened.

    #35708
    Thargus
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    Sent the text, I’m at work atm. I said
    “hey you, everything alright? You seem quiet lately.”

    Nice and simple but she hasn’t replied yet

    #35710
    geodj
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    Nice and simple.all you can do is wait.let us know what happened.

    #35711
    Thargus
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    I will do πŸ™‚

    #35716
    KD1988
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    Yep nice and light and breezy πŸ™‚ Very casual.

    try not to overthink things πŸ™‚

    #35854
    Thargus
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    still no reply πŸ™ i will wait now until she does, i wont keep texting

    #35855
    kaila
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    Yeh, don’t text her. You have a meeting date with her, that is the most important. And she might be busy so don’t overthink it

    #35909
    Thargus
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    So she still hasn’t replied, I bumped into her sister at the gym so I asked her has she been quiet? And she said yes very and she’s unsure why. So I will definitely leave it a while and see what happens

    #35910
    kaila
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    Yes, do that πŸ™‚ Try not to let it put you down. I am going to the gym too in a few hours eheh πŸ™‚

    #35911
    geodj
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    hi Thargus
    wait a little bit and see what happen.maybe she is thinking now.after all you arrange a meeting.

    #35922
    Thargus
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    I shall post my reply when I get to my computer in regards to your story you posted πŸ™‚ I haven’t forgotten and sorry its taken a while, been busy!

    #35923
    geodj
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    exchainging opinions and advices help each other.i ll be waitng for your reply.thank you my friend.

    #36049
    amy111
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    hello πŸ™‚ so a couple of days ago my no contact ended (Im now on day 35/36?) and I was all geared up to finally text my ex after wimping out so many times!!

    however, i saw his sister yesterday, and she thinks that if I text him it will give him the wrong impression (that Im only contacting him because he thinks I want to get back with him)

    now im really stuck! I really miss him and really, really want to talk to him…but now im even more scared that if I message him he wont reply and I’ll end up getting horrendously upset πŸ™

    Should I ignore the advice or should I take it on board and just wait a bit longer to contact?

    #36229
    Thargus
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    This is exactly why I hate when family and friends get involved.. They dont mean to but it sabotages things. Text him. I am having the same thing happen right now.. And its frustrated me more than anything else. I will talk more tonight as I am actually at home. Work right now and I’ve been incredibly busy past few days

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