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April 15, 2015 at 1:56 am #41637
@annakis do you have a reason to be in touch? I think it makes it easier if you do! So like if you have some of her stuff or its someone’s birthday and you wanna send your wishes etc?
April 15, 2015 at 10:19 am #41689Hrm she did leave me her favourite shirt, I guess I could contact her about that and see if she wants it back…
Is that a little obvious though? π
April 15, 2015 at 5:05 pm #41797Hmmm maybe. I dunno to be honest! I think you should just play it by ear π
April 16, 2015 at 5:22 am #41839@pineappleblue @malinda how are you both doing? x
April 16, 2015 at 9:13 am #41860Yeah, haven’t heard many updates from you two π I was just about to ask how you two were myself!
April 16, 2015 at 9:33 am #41864Haha beat you to it!
April 16, 2015 at 11:25 am #41884Hello!
I’m doing ok but it seems like I’ll not be able to get over him anytime soon…he didn’t contact me, nothing at all and its like he’ll never be, thats fine anyway.
They called me today for a second round of interview that will be on Sunday..just pushing myself being busy with stuffs here and there or just lazying around.How are you doing all ?
April 16, 2015 at 11:47 am #41886@malinda that sounds amazing! π well done! And try not to think about him not messaging too much.. If it’s going to happen it will take time!
@kd1988 @annakis I’m actually doin okay! I haven’t heard anything from him but I’m at the point now where I’m not upset, I just can’t believe he’s become the person he’s shown himself to be by not staying in touch after he’s been the most important thing in my life for the last 6 years! I’m losing that desire for him I had before.. He doesn’t deserve me!
Also, I have a date on Saturday with a lovely guy iv been chatting with! And I’m mega excited but super nervous! π xApril 16, 2015 at 11:54 am #41887@malinda that’s great about the second interview! Good luck! Yes don’t worry that he’s not contacted you, he could be finding it just as hard as you x
@pineappleblue glad you are doing so well! Makes me happy! Oooo a date π go you! XApril 16, 2015 at 12:19 pm #41893@pineappleblue wow thats great and I’m excited and happy for you! I’m sure your ex will understand your value soon or later but he will, cuz you’re cool!
Thank you well I think he’s over with me @KD1988 and how are you doing ? and @annakisApril 16, 2015 at 3:55 pm #41921@malinda im not doing too badly. Just taking each day as it comes and getting on with it π trying not to look back or forward and just focus on now x
April 18, 2015 at 5:04 am #42155Well let me see… I would guess that it’s been about 6 weeks since my ex and I broke up and at the moment I think I’m in a similar place to Pineapple to be honest… Every day that goes by I find myself wanting to talk to her less and less… Like she said, my desire for her is fading fast.. I just think about the way she treated me and I know I deserve better!
Basically I’m at a point where I feel like if we have any chance, she’s got to contact me… And then she will have to do a LOT to prove that she’s worth another chance… And if it ever gets to the point where it feels like she’s starting to push me away and starting to treat me like she did again then I’d end the relationship myself, because I REALLY don’t want to go through what she put me through again…
So yeah, that’s nice isn’t it π
April 19, 2015 at 10:59 am #42275Well I feel shit today! I had my date yesterday and he was lovely, but I didn’t feel anything real, he’s just not my ex! I came home and woke up today wanting him back more than ever! It’s been eight weeks today and he still hasn’t been in touch again! I just don’t know what to think..
I feel like I’m back at square one and have sat in my pyjamas all day, ignoring date boys texts and eating pizza π argh!! What am I going to do? xApril 19, 2015 at 2:12 pm #42297AWww I’m sorry to hear that π
Maybe you’re just not ready to date yet? I know I’m definitely not. I almost said yes to a date the other day but I had this weird feeling, like I was cheating almost! It was really strange. Makes no sense I know, but that’s how it felt…
I guess you just have to keep doing what you’re doing… Working on yourself and healing… I know it’s frustrating but you are making progress π
April 19, 2015 at 3:50 pm #42301Yeah, I definitely feel like I’m not ready! I don’t want to give up on my ex, I didn’t realise how much I’m still in love with him until this morning! π
I feel awful for date boy (that is what we shall call him haha), as he seemed really interested, and I just don’t know what to say to him!
It really feels like Iv taken 10 steps back! I’m so frustrated!
There’s an event thing we had tickets for for next weekend that we got for Christmas.. And he’s already told me he’s taking a friend, but I’ve still got this hope he’ll say lets still go, even just as friends.. Should I text him and say I hope he has a great time? Or just leave it? I really don’t know!! x -
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