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April 12, 2015 at 3:17 am #41096
Hey @malinda try not to feel too down! I had nothing until i initiated contact at day 34 and then very little since – only to arrange the meet up! So just because he’s not been in touch don’t mean he’s not thinking about you! I have a very strong feeling my ex is regretting his decision a little bit already, I’m just not convinced it’s enough to bring him back!
I know what you mean about being in your thoughts! And everyone will say ‘it will get better’ and you’ll want to scream at them, but it will.. I can promise you that! I now don’t think about him as soon as I wake up, but I do get reminded of him about 100 times a day with little things such as a tv advert or a friend or even food, it’s crazy. But it is normal!
So please keep your chin up and try not to think about what he’s doing and thinking, it’s not helpful to your healing and there is nothing can be gained from thinking about it, coz chances are, even if you get back together, you’ll never know! xApril 12, 2015 at 3:51 am #41100@malinda I completely agree with pineapple! It’s so hard, I know, but as pineapple said just because you haven’t heard anything doesn’t mean he isn’t thinking about you my love. He will be. And he will be reminded of you just as much as you are reminded of him. See how you feel in a few days and if you want to reach out then do x
April 12, 2015 at 5:23 am #41104Thank you isn’t enough at all but again thank you for your sincere support…I will survive I hope @pineappleblue @KD1988 xxxx
April 12, 2015 at 5:27 am #41105@malinda you will! And you’ll be a stronger happier person for it!
April 12, 2015 at 5:36 am #41106You definitely will!! It will all be worth it in the end! Because regardless of what happens with your ex, you will be stronger for it x
April 13, 2015 at 2:50 am #41268@pineappleblue @Annakis @Malinda how is everyone doing today? x
April 13, 2015 at 6:03 am #41288I’m ok I guess. I just had an interview for a job, it could be better but it was ok. How are you doing, anything new ? @KD1988
It is still hard for me to go on with my life sometimes but anyway I have to.April 13, 2015 at 6:06 am #41289@Malinda an interview that’s good my dear. It’s something positive 🙂 I have two interviews tomorrow myself.
I am ok, nothing new since what happened on Friday.
It is hard, and we know how that feels. But sometimes it is just about making yourself do it. If you don’t feel like getting out of bed one day, MAKE yourself do it! xApril 13, 2015 at 7:42 am #41299@Malinda @KD1988 Well done both of you for crackin on and getting interviews! Amazing news 🙂
We definitely know how it feels but youve gotta pick yourself up! I know its easier said than done..On the plus side, a positive story, i was talking to my boss today and his daughter has just gotten back with her ex after 12 weeks of not talking at all.. He’s come back begging for another chance! Its funny because we’ve joked the whole time they and me and my ex have been split up that we’re living in a parallel universe.. So maybe, just maybe.. haha!
April 13, 2015 at 8:08 am #41301@pineappleblue Haha that’s a great story! Gives a bit of faith! Wouldn’t it be spooky to follow in the same footsteps straight after lol.
Yep excited about my interviews, desperate to get out of where I am! x
April 13, 2015 at 9:37 am #41308Yeah that is what I’m exactly doing, making myself do things..good luck with your interviews dear @KD1988 …She is so lucky to have her ex back even begging! sigh.. and how you feeling @pineappleblue ?
April 13, 2015 at 9:42 am #41311April 13, 2015 at 9:53 am #41315Well yes you never know.. Xx
April 13, 2015 at 9:56 am #41317@KD1988 I really hope so!
Glad to hear that everyone’s making progress! And god how I would LOVE to have my ex come begging to me to take her back haha.
I know it’s mean to want that but wouldn’t it be nice?
April 13, 2015 at 10:33 am #41323So everyone… How are we feeling about or Exes in general at the moment? Are we feeling pretty confident or what?
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