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April 10, 2015 at 11:06 am #40819
that makes me sound like I’m awful in bed! I’m assured im not! Ha ha!!
April 10, 2015 at 11:07 am #40820The only reason I ever had an issue wth her is because he told me she was going to be a problem! And also because he told me he only ever had sex with someone he was in a relationship with, and not sure what made her an exception!
I’m just really struggling with it right now! It’s making me feel sick and has just made me want him back even more! Just want him to see me and he won’t! XApril 10, 2015 at 11:09 am #40821Haha I’m sure you’re not!
Eh I bet it is more likely to be that he wants no ties for a bit… But even if it was about sex… Well! In all the time you two have been together you’ve kinda learned what each other likes and you had a connection that you can only get by being with someone a long time…
Any girl he sleeps with won’t have that, so there’s no way he’s gonna get it better!
April 10, 2015 at 11:20 am #40824Ah yes but they were seeing each other before I came along for a few months!
I really want to message him and say I just need to be left alone for a while, but then he will know I’m bothered!April 10, 2015 at 12:05 pm #40831Just got the most fucked up text (I apologise for my swearing today!!)
Hun please understand i feel under no obligations at all to do anything. Not to sound twattish but i could chose to not talk to you but i do still care about your wellbeing so i will still ask how you are. Don’t think becauase i haven’t jumped at meeting up because i have fears you are going to try to date rape me and tie me to your bed or something lol. Like i said before i am just happy texting and catching up like that. Obvs not the same as face to face but for now i am happy as is π so assurance for you: i trust you when you say you are good and i know you aren’t a batshit crazy psycho ex from hell, nor am i afraid you want to meet up to try and sway me to come back with you because i know you understand i made my feelings on that clear π i don’t check up because i feel i have to (because well… i dont have to lol) i do it because its nice to know you are ok xx
Bare in mind I said nothing back to his text about going out with that woman tonight!
April 10, 2015 at 12:17 pm #40833Huh… Kinda sounds like you’re the one getting to him now rather than him getting to you! I think he was expecting an angry text or something from you over him going to the cinema with that woman… And he hasn’t got one so he’s trying this? Either way I think he’s trying to get a reaction from you.
April 10, 2015 at 12:21 pm #40834It’s messed up! What should I do? Ignore it or reply? I wouldn’t even know what to say!
April 10, 2015 at 12:33 pm #40837I wouldn’t give him the time of day.. Right now he does not deserve it! He’s trying to get a response! If you feel you have to respond just say Yes, I understand! And leave it at that.. That will frustrate him! From the sounds of it he wants some drama and he isn’t getting it so he’s trying a different tactic!
April 10, 2015 at 12:36 pm #40838Just feels like he is trying to hurt me today! I don’t need it!!! X
April 10, 2015 at 12:43 pm #40840It sounds like he just wants a reaction and that’s not fair! π
April 10, 2015 at 12:47 pm #40841I agree with pineapple! Ignore him! π
April 10, 2015 at 12:49 pm #40842Ok ignore it is! Thanks everyone, and sorry for all the ranting and swearing today! X
April 10, 2015 at 12:56 pm #40843It’s okay that’s what we’re for! Better us than giving him the satisfaction! π
Don’t worry about swearing! We all have those days! I’m feeling a bit like it today too..April 10, 2015 at 12:58 pm #40844I just dunno what he wants from me π like I know a reaction but why?! It’s so hard!
Let it all out! XApril 10, 2015 at 1:05 pm #40846 -
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