Meeting up with his mum..

[KD1988]

I think that’s good, that’s a good first meeting! You can’t expect too much from it, it’s going to be a slow process but I think that’s good progress! Maybe you could text him later saying it was nice to see him etc. and then leave it up to him to contact you! X

[pineappleblue]

Yes I thought that! Just say something like I’m glad we got to catch up, was really nice to see him etc.
I think iv done all I can for now.. The ball is in his court completely! I just feel out of control now and I hate that ha x

[KD1988]

Haha yeah I know what you mean! Yeah send that later and see what happens! You say about control but your control would be not messaging him and leaving it up to him! X

[Annakis]

Sounds like a good little meet to me to be honest! But it was only the first meet, don’t expect too much… I think you’ve laid a good foundation to build on here 🙂

[pineappleblue]

I feel so panicky! Haha!

[Annakis]

Yeah I probably would be in your situation too! But don’t worry, you’ve done all you can do and done it well… So just see what happens! 🙂

[pineappleblue]

Thanks! Iv just text him saying it was lovely to catch up! It’s up to him now if at all..
I think that iv set myself up with the best chance of him coming back if he wants to! If he doesn’t it was a lost cause anyway! x

[KD1988]

Absolutely. You’ve played it all really well! It’s down to him now! X

[pineappleblue]

He text me back saying he agreed it was really nice! I text him back about something else (related to what he said in reply) and now he’s not responding.. I feel like I’m right back at the beginning x

[Annakis]

Ahhhh don’t overthink things hehe… You’ll drive yourself crazy 😛

If he’s not responding that’s okay, don’t worry about it or anything… You’ve just created a positive experience together, that can only be good 🙂

Just don’t panic and get needy or anything like that 🙂

[pineappleblue]

Haha you’re right! I’m so much better off than I was this morning!! I’m just desperate for him to say he wants to see me again.. Im gonna go NC again for a couple of weeks unless he texts me I think :S what do you think?
I’m meeting his mum for a coffee tomorrow after work to ask her advice on something (unrelated) so I’ll get her take on things again I guess.. x

[Annakis]

Ah yes it’s good that you have her mum as your inside source really, especially since she wants you two to get back together… Doesn’t she?

Anyway yeah I think waiting for him to contact you is a good bet… I think he’ll want to talk to you anyway but best let him think it’s his idea maybe 😉

[pineappleblue]

I’m sure shed be over the moon if we were but obviously she’s trying to be impartial at the moment with it being his decision! He spent the whole day with her yesterday so I’m sure she’ll have gleaned something from him haha!
I really hope he does! I think I’m just being really impatient! x

[Annakis]

Ohhh I’m impatient too… And I haven’t even had any contact yet!

But yeah, see what you can find out 😛

[KD1988]

All sounds very positive @pineappleblue 🙂

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