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Yes I hope so too for all of us! 🙂 we must keep each other updated whatever happens x
Absolutely!! I am actually finding myself thinking about him less (20 hours out of 24 haha) and find myself thinking hang on a minute, I’ve made all these changes, for myself obviously, and he won’t even give me the time to show him! Find myself caring less about what he’s thinking about me! X
Your absolutely right! Don’t worry what he’s thinking, focus on you 🙂
I think when I get into my new routine with the house he’ll slowly slip out of my mind bit by bit until he’s just a nice memory..It’s not worth me worrying about what he’s thinking about me, because unless he tells me I won’t actually know anyway and will just spend my time second guessing. I think he expected me to completely fall apart, which I did for the first week, then I picked myself up and sorted myself out. And I don’t think he was expecting that.
Yeah that would be nice wouldn’t it!! XYes it would, whether it will happen or not I don’t know.. Haha! I don’t even know if I want it to happen.. I guess I will if he doesn’t wanna get back to where we were!
We can’t control what they think (it would be good if we could, we’d be with them not here haha) so we’ve just gotta concentrate on what we can control!Completely agree. I only have control over what I do and say. Although sometimes im not sure I even have that haha x
Morning hun, just got out my exercise class so feeling good but tired! How are you? X
Hey 🙂 I think I’m doing okay at the moment… Had a dream this morning where I got a text from my ex. A loooong one explaining how she made a huge mistake and wanted me back and such. I was really not happy to find out it was all a dream! Shook me up for a bit but I’m alright now…
Right now I’m thinking about forgiveness, you know? I think when I get down a lot of it is over what she did to me, feeling betrayed and abandoned, stuff like that, so I’m really trying to forgive her for doing the things she did. Some times I feel like I’ve done it but other times… Maybe not. I really want to get to the point where I don’t feel angry or hurt towards her, but I still want to allow myself to miss her, you know?
Anyway that’s where I am right now 🙂 How about you, and everyone else?
@annakis I hate dreams like that so much. I have them all the time, or I daydream about it!
A lot of the moving on process is about forgiveness. For me, I had to forgive myself. I didn’t do anything bad, and it wasn’t my fault but as a result of what happened to me, I changed as a person, so I had to forgive myself for it regardless. Which I have done. I still have days where I think about what happened and how I behaved but ultimately I know that I couldn’t control what was happening to me. I need to forgive him for leaving me when I needed him the most, but at the same time it’s the only thing that I can hold against him that makes me dislike him slightly!
Oh wow yeah, I think I need to work on forgiving myself too… That sounds just as important! I think I’m gonna save what you wrote about that so I’ll remember it when I’m beating myself up.
Does anyone else get these moments where they just think ‘to hell with it, I don’t want my ex back anymore’?
I’m also a little worried because I don’t think I have that in love feeling towards my ex anymore… I still love her as a person and appreciate and admire so many things about her, but honestly I think if she was standing in front of me now… I’d hug her, I’d hold her REALLY close to me but I don’t know if I’d want to do anything more than that… Perhaps it’s because I’m still feeling hurt, I don’t know…
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