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April 1, 2015 at 2:46 pm #39465
Yep it is just that! If we take the bricks from the broken house, chances are the new house won’t be much better! God I’m full of philosophical crap I do apologise π it has to be a new house, with new foundations and stronger, better bricks!
@annakis wow yes okay, your more long distance than us! Haha! π as I said though.. It’s not impossible! Keep in mind you’ve made it work before, no reason you can’t make it work again!And your dead right about our behaviour! We wouldn’t kick off if a new love interest didn’t text us back immediately or didn’t put smileys in their texts.. That’s the way we’ve gotta play it x
April 1, 2015 at 3:22 pm #39474Exactly! I just had to give myself a strict talking to lol. Just had a wave of “why hasn’t he messaged me, why doesn’t he wanna talk to me”??
Just had to tell myself if he wanted to talk then he would, he is prob doing it for his own good and mine. He’s a good guy, he really is, and wants what is best for ME and probably thinks not talking to me is best! XApril 1, 2015 at 3:28 pm #39475Hear hear sister! That is COMPLETELY my situation! He is an amazing, caring, genuine guy, hence my heartbreak at losing him! π
God I hope he sees me on Monday and realises how much he misses me and falls at my feet and begs me to take him back! But I know the chances of that are slim to none, this is not Hollywood! xApril 1, 2015 at 3:46 pm #39476Haha that would be nice if it actually worked like that wouldn’t it!! Deffo doesn’t work like it does in the movies! Men are too stubborn in real life lol x
April 1, 2015 at 4:02 pm #39479Yep! π even if their thought process worked like that most guys would be too awkward to pull it off!
I feel really okay today! I feel like I’m forgetting how it feels to be with him without forgetting the memories if that makes senSe? It’s worrying me a little! My mum (again) says she thinks it’s my self defence mechanism kicking in! xApril 1, 2015 at 4:34 pm #39486Makes total sense hun! Haha. It’s a good position to be in! X
April 1, 2015 at 4:38 pm #39487It is but I don’t want to forget, because I want to hold on to it! Is that really bad?
April 1, 2015 at 4:42 pm #39488No not bad at all. It’s normal! I think it’s all part of the process!
April 1, 2015 at 5:19 pm #39499I accidentally sent a text to my ex (was a genuine accident!!!) he replied saying don’t think that’s for me. I should of left it there but replied and said no sorry genuine mistake. He said ok, asked how I was. I said I was good hope he was too, and he’s like yeah things a pretty good with me thanks, life is on the up and pretty happy right now.
A simple “things are good” would have be enough!!April 1, 2015 at 5:22 pm #39502ARGHHH! He’s definitely trying too hard to convince you, which means he’s convincing himself. He’s obviously struggling with his decision.. He definitely needs more time! Keep it up x
April 1, 2015 at 5:25 pm #39506I’m just so pissed lol. Sorry to be blunt. I definitely feel worse if we talk, albeit an accident! Because then I start to overanalyse! I feel like I get an indifference from him. Which isn’t good! If he’s so bloody good then I assume he can meet up haha c
April 1, 2015 at 5:31 pm #39507He isn’t good lets face it! If he was he wouldn’t feel the need to tell you about it as he may even feel guilty! I understand why your pissed, I would be! x
April 1, 2015 at 5:37 pm #39509Argh just didn’t need it! I don’t wanna know how good he is doing without me lol. And if he’s that good then he can meet me!! Which he won’t π x
April 1, 2015 at 5:41 pm #39510Every time he tells you he’s good, just imagine him sat in his pants with a tub of ice cream listening to celine dion, crying as he writes the text, coz that is what it’s screaming to me! He is all talk.. It’s ridiculous! You are right, if he was so “good” he would have met up with you before now x
April 2, 2015 at 1:12 am #39557Hahaha that made me laugh!! I will imagine that from now on lol. To be honest, I’m just getting mad with him now, I tried so hard to sort myself out, and he won’t even give me the time of day. Shame on him x
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