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Hi, Patricia, I hope everything’s going well.
My ex didn’t text me, but I’m much better. I can be happy even without her, I have started to have new passions and in general I am quieter and hopeful for my future.
I realized that I don’t need her to be happy, but that having her near me would definitely make me feel a lot better. I continue NC, but definitely with the certainty that if it doesn’t end well with her, the world is full of other girls and possibilities. (obviously the times I miss I’m really sick and I cry, but slowly it’s getting better and better).I happened to ask for advice on this breakup in forums like these on the internet and the general answers were “it will never happen again, you have to forget it, forget it because she doesn’t love you, even if she doesn’t tell you”.
I’m crazy to think that how we could get back together, we might not even get back together? And so to say that it will never happen again is as false as to say that it will happen 100%?
I hope everything goes well 🙂@pinco You’re correct in that we don’t know if she will text or want to reconcile. It’s only been 3 weeks since you two texted and she might still be upset or confused. So just continue no contact and try not to obsess about the situation! I know you said you’re doing better and with time you will even be less sad. You’re also correct about the possibility of meeting a nice girl in the future and having a great relationship. The main thing is NEVER act needy again with anyone!
Wishing you the best and stay safe:)
Good morning,
I didn’t wrote anything because there was no news, she did not contact me in any way (except looking my Instagram) and I was busy with exams and graduation.
Tomorrow, a very dear friend of mine will meet her because she have to give him something back that was in her house.
I am quite tense for this meeting even if I have no reason to. If my ex girlfriend ask my friend how I am, how would it be better to answer?
I don’t want her to think that I’m fine and I forgot about her or that I’m crying every day locked in the house, because it’s not reality in either case.
Should my friend tell her that I still wanna meet with her or talk to her through text messages? (If the topic happens in their meeting, of course)
Thanks for the attention@pinco Yes, he could say you think it would be nice to text, call, meetup etc..
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