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March 23, 2015 at 1:23 am #37588
But why would she be bothered???
Right now you’re like with him but not romantically involved sorta thing haha
March 23, 2015 at 1:29 am #37589She’d be bothered because she still loves you. The dude is a rebound. He’s a distraction. The fact that you took the time to write her a letter, it will blow her mind. You could put in the letter “I hope that maybe in the future, we could have something again. But I understand if you don’t.” Even when my ex sent me that long text saying he understands if I don’t forgive him. That impacted me. It will impact her.
I agree. I know he wants to be intamite. But I think he is coming around for more than just a booty call. It is taking every ounce of me to reject him in that manner.
March 23, 2015 at 2:05 am #37591I get what you’re saying. I will show you the letter soon!
I hope your mind will be clear when things start to get serious, dont make any mistakes Ellie!
March 23, 2015 at 2:06 am #37592I can’t wait 🙂
And I don’t know when/if things will ever get serious again! I feel like the only way to get them that way is to start pulling back! But I don’t know!
March 23, 2015 at 2:28 am #37594Like he literally just called me babe.. Yet he doesn’t know what he wants, I’m barely a priority, he expects me to come around on his call, and he wants to be friends for right now. Ugh
March 23, 2015 at 2:29 am #37595She calls me babe too but its probably due to habit…
March 23, 2015 at 2:31 am #37596Nah he meant to do it. It was over text. He just texted me and said he had something to say and he is going to tell me how he feels. I’m so nervous right now.
March 23, 2015 at 2:32 am #37597Sounds like the moment of truth ellie! Hope it’s gonna be what you wanted to hear
March 23, 2015 at 2:34 am #37598He said he had a rough day so he took a pill to help him sleep and it made him a little high which makes him want to tell me how he feels. I’m having like a panic attack. Because I don’t know if he is going to be totally cruel or really nice.
March 23, 2015 at 2:35 am #37599Ellie dont overthink now!
March 23, 2015 at 3:54 am #37601I hope it’s what u want to hear ellie. I hope he’s come to his senses. Try to act cool I know it’s easier said then done.
I’m going to send out my letter on wed. Wish me luck even though I’m not expecting anything. Maybe a bit of closer and hopefully some kind of reply but I’m not expecting a reply but it would be nice.
March 23, 2015 at 4:03 am #37602Should I txt her to say I’m sending her a letter or would it be best not to and just send it?
March 23, 2015 at 4:10 am #37603I think its best not to alert her
March 23, 2015 at 4:14 am #37604Cool cheers mj
March 23, 2015 at 4:14 am #37605@Gingerone
Definitely don’t text her to say you are sending a letter. it will give her time to think about it. Just send it, and the impact of receiving it will be huge.
that’s something my ex said to me when I sent mine. That he had huge respect for me sending it and he wasn’t expecting it. It made him quite emotional.
I should be receiving his letter today and I feel sick. I know it’s not gonna say what I want.
But I just have to think that whatever he says, I can handle it and I can deal with it!
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