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Your in a hard situation then, I feel for u. Surly if your sticking by him while he’s ill. How could he not appreciate you. Surly he must see that!
I’ve read over it a few times. I think it’s about right
Let me read it! Them I can tell you what to do!
And he doesn’t appreciate it. He doesn’t because he knew I would stick around. He hasn’t had time to really realize what I’ve done for him.
It’s on the first page of this thread.
Sorry if I’m being harsh but he must be stupid. You don’t have to stay around while he’s ill. Your doing it because your a good person. You deserve his respect
Yeah but we told you to change it!
Oh I agree he’s stupid. I had have back for 3 years. She been broken up for almost 5 months and I still had has back. No appreciation. He didn’t have to be appreciative. He could do anything to me just because he knew I wasnt going anywhere. He never cheated or anything but now he does whatever and knows I’m not going to leave. It is so crappy.
I’ve added a section saying that maybe the break up was for the best as I got incompetent and let myself go. Now I can focus on improving myself
Do u even want him back? Because if your expecting him to change I think he might never do. Sorry if that’s not what u want to hear
I don’t know what I want. I want the old him back. He may change but he won’t until he realizes what I have done for him. So why I’m still sticking around, I have no idea because it isn’t going to make a difference. Wow, you actually made me break down. I haven’t done that in forever.
That’s good. Just mail it to her!
I will I’ll send it off before I go on my road trip.
I feel for u, I hope he realises and sorts his act out
Yay! I wish you the best of luck!
Its like I’ve been ignoring the situation for a while because I have been focusing on me. I haven’t given myself time to grieve once more. I need that time. Yeah, you can’t make people feel a certain way but you can definitely make them realize. If he didn’t want me in his life, I’d be gone. He wants me in his life no doubt. I need to figure out away to help him realize and that I am the girl for him. Because if you ask anyone else they say I’m too good for him which is what makes me the one for him.
@gingerone I just got off the phone with me and he was so happy to talk to me. Before we said goodnight he said “I love you”. Do you understand my confusion? :/
@gingerone I’m starting to write my letter too and am not sure if I should send it personally or by mail.
@ellie damn why’d he say that all of a sudden?
@Mj let me read your letter!
And dude, that’s what I’m saying. Now do you understand why I’m so confused?
I’m still trying to balance out the contents! I shouldnt mention that I want her back right?
But it seems like you guys are getting along better? Positive change perhaps?
@Mj I don’t think you should mention that. You have to act like you’re moving on!
And we are getting along. But he isn’t appreciating me. Like, when he went on his trip he came back and told about how he got all these girls but didn’t sleep with them and deleted their numbers right away. Its as if he is bragging yet he wants me to see that he isn’t being committed to someone. Then he will say something along the lines of “you need a good college guy” and then I’ll be like “well what do you need?” and he will say “a good college girl” and then I’m like “which is me??” Then he will get quiet and say we will talk about that the next time we get together. But then he is excited to talk to me, tells me the reason why be hasn’t texted me is because he was working all day to reassure me that he isn’t ignoring me and then tells me he loves me. So I am just beyond confused.
But what if she thinks its great I’m moving on and it just solidifies her decision to stay with her new guy.
Sounds like he doesnt know how to pick his words!
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