Boards Reconciliation Letter final draft! Pls tell me what u think

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  • #38553
    ellie96
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    You guys have to understand that as soon as they read the letter, their minds are surrounded by thoughts. They are overwhelmed with what used to be, what has happened, what may happen, and what they should do. They are not going to respond right away. You can’t expect for them to contact you immediately and say “I love you!”. You have to give them time.. They will eventually contact you! I promise!!


    @divjun
    I’m not sure if I am good or bad.

    Guys, it is really weird how things are going good between me and him, and now I am overwhelmed with the thoughts of every way he has hurt me and what he has done to me. It makes it so hard.

    #38555
    Gingerone
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    Hi @ellie96. Thanks for your reply. I didn’t think of it that way. I’m just panicking a bit about it.

    I know things must be confusing for u, I’m probebly not the best person to advise you at the moment seeing as I’m not in contact with my ex. All I can say is follow your heart.

    #38561
    Gingerone
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    @ellie96 has he been in contact since?

    #38633
    ellie96
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    @Gingerone we talked yesterday and then I texted him today and told him to listen to a song and he said “okay I will” and I thanked him. Haven’t heard from him since. Soooo lol

    #38634
    ellie96
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    @Gingerone And he’s off today too

    #38658
    Gingerone
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    Hi @ellie96 stay calm I’m sure he will get back to you. Try not to act neady. I’ve got my fingers crossed for u. I’m sure it will work

    #38693
    Mj
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    Hey guys.

    @gingerone still no word from her?

    what about you @ellie?

    #38695
    ellie96
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    @Mj and @Gingerone He texted me around midnight and told me what he thinks the song meant, and then I told him the real meaning behind it. I fell asleep right after I texted him that and I woke up to one missed call from him last night.

    #38697
    Mj
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    did you call him back?

    #38699
    ellie96
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    @Mj No all I did was text him this morning and apologized. Now I am just waiting for him to text me back!

    #38701
    Mj
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    I see… I’m finishing my letter soon but I’m afraid that it wont sound as convincing as it should be!

    #38704
    ellie96
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    You have to post it so I can critique it!

    #38706
    Mj
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    soon!

    #38711
    Gingerone
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    Nope still nothing off her 🙁
    Think it’s the end now then or should I still be positive and fight?
    Like I said we still need to meet up to sort bills. I could do it anytime but I’ve been waiting a bit before I agree to it. I want to look my best so ive given it some time so I can work out at the gym, etc

    I’ve no idea why she wouldn’t reply. I’m going to wait a week then txt her the next one.

    #38721
    ellie96
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    @Gingerone She hasn’t replied because she’s either still thinking or she literally has not seen it.

    I wouldn’t give up but I wouldn’t fight either. That’s my problem. I don’t know whether to give up or fight. But I have come to realize that if I don’t fight and I don’t give up, I’ll have a better chance of succeeding. Why? Because then I will be souly thinking about myself and nothing else.

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